I'm new here and looking for some info
I've met a girl online about 4 years ago when we talked for a couple of months and then lost touch for over 2.5 years. She lives quite far (different timezones) and its kind a useless if you can't meet.
However last year for some reason we started talking again and we moved on to a more interesting state. Webcam, flirting, and a lot of references to sex. Now a good month ago I decided to meet her. During the holidays I traveled to her for and it was fantastic. We hooked up had a wonderful couple of days and great sex.
First days when I returned home, even while I was flying home she kept on sending texts that she had great days, asking me to come back as soon as possible, etc...
I went along with it as I am very much interested in starting something with this women.
However last couple of weeks it seems it has been slacking a bit. She occasionally sends me texts, sometimes boring, sometimes interesting with "I miss you", "I'm with you".
However we talk on cam almost everyday and its always quite nice but she has already mentioned a couple of times that "her heart does not feel like we belong together. And based on her previous relations she does not want to start something with me if her heart doesn't feel right".
Only then to say something like "I miss you very much and want you to be here" like 15 minutes later.
Now I know I can manage things when I'm there. However I can only go back to her in 3 months from now, which means that I have to keep her hooked for another 12 weeks.
Do you guys have any ideas how to do this the most effective way?
I think I already tried to hard and went over the top trying to convince her which makes her owning me. So I would like to turn the roles again, so she's the one waiting for me and hopes that I do the same thing.