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    Exclamation Got a girls number off FB, what to TEXT?

    Hey,

    This girl from Uni gave me her number after I messaged her on fb asking for it, saying we should catch up. I haven't seen or spoken to her in over a year.

    She doesn't have my number in her phone.

    What should I message her to start off?

    Some options:

    "Hey *insert name*, its spax. This is my number. Save it in your phone. =) "

    "Guess who :P"

    "Hey *insert name*, its spax. Save this number in your phone because its the most important one you'll ever get "

    Any suggestions would be appreciated.

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    Default Re: Got a girls number off FB, what to TEXT?

    Our interaction has been:


    "Hey HB8,

    How have you been? Are you still *insert university*? I'm in my last semester right now.

    spax"

    She replied

    "Hey spax,

    Yeah, still at *insert university" doing *insert course*. How is your last semester going."


    I sent back the next day.

    "Good stuff. Yeah university is going pretty well. Hey listen, would love to catch up with you, so shoot me your number and ill keep in touch x"

    She replied the next day

    "Sounds good! My number is ########"

    OK guys,

    So whats the next step?

    I haven't spoken to her in ages, and she doesn't have my number in her phone yet, so I don't think I can call right away.

    I feel like I need to build rapport first by some casual texting because it has been 1.5 years since I last spoke to her.

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    Default Re: Got a girls number off FB, what to TEXT?

    Quote Originally Posted by spax View Post
    Our interaction has been:


    "Hey HB8,

    How have you been? Are you still *insert university*? I'm in my last semester right now.

    spax"

    She replied

    "Hey spax,

    Yeah, still at *insert university" doing *insert course*. How is your last semester going."

    I sent back the next day.

    "Good stuff. Yeah university is going pretty well. Hey listen, would love to catch up with you, so shoot me your number and ill keep in touch x"

    She replied the next day

    "Sounds good! My number is ########"

    OK guys,

    So whats the next step?

    I haven't spoken to her in ages, and she doesn't have my number in her phone yet, so I don't think I can call right away.

    I feel like I need to build rapport first by some casual texting because it has been 1.5 years since I last spoke to her.
    This is an official "Spax thinks you're awesome" text. If you feel you have received this text in error, too bad. Suck it up and enjoy the compliment anyway.

    It has never failed me in hundreds of uses as a first text.

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    Default Re: Got a girls number off FB, what to TEXT?

    Quote Originally Posted by SiliconMagician View Post
    This is an official "Spax thinks you're awesome" text. If you feel you have received this text in error, too bad. Suck it up and enjoy the compliment anyway.

    It has never failed me in hundreds of uses as a first text.
    Sounds a bit beta and makes her seem like a prized possession. I should be the awesome one, not her.

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    Default Re: Got a girls number off FB, what to TEXT?

    Quote Originally Posted by spax View Post
    Sounds a bit beta and makes her seem like a prized possession. I should be the awesome one, not her.
    Match.Com did a massive survey of all emails between their users to discover the most effective words, phrases, etc in emails that led to the highest number of positive responses.

    The study showed that being a little self effacing worked best. I only offer what I know works for me in my experience, and what is backed up by study.

    Cocky/Funny does not tend to work well over text.

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    Default Re: Got a girls number off FB, what to TEXT?

    Or I can just send: "guess who "

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    Default Re: Got a girls number off FB, what to TEXT?

    Lol why'd you ask if you already knew what you planned to say? I'd listen to TSM, he knows his shit.

    I use primarily one text opener:

    "Hey girl"

    It never fails me.
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    Default Re: Got a girls number off FB, what to TEXT?

    One of my friends said to send her another FB message saying:
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    Ok got it, Been busy lately with this being my last semester. My number is ###-###-####, Call me on Monday and we will set something up for the week once my schedule slows down
    -----------------------
    And if she calls, she's interested.

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    Default Re: Got a girls number off FB, what to TEXT?

    Go with Silicons message on this one. Once she replys , you can bring in the cocky funny.
    Like
    "I said your awesome, but not as awesome as me."
    This will flow into her proving she is as awesome as you with probably a few SHIT TESTS, dont fall for them you will be fine.
    DONT SEND WHAT YOUR MATE SAID no game in that.

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    Default Re: Got a girls number off FB, what to TEXT?

    oh lawd.

    texted "Guess who :-P" and no response 3 hours later.

    I dun goofed.


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