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    silicis n volvo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I crash & burn after getting a number

    I've been using a dating site and i have had a few girls reply to my messages. When i get talking to them it seems to be going well, and what i like to do is give them my number to get in touch with me.

    I dont ask them, I tell them to take it. And if they get in touch i know they are interested. It does work, most of the girls usually text me pretty soon or offer their number straight back to me.

    BUT

    once i have their number i f*ck it all up. We get texting and it just fizzles out. She'l stop sounding so interested and take longer to reply untill the replies just stop.

    What do i do to stop this from happening?

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    Default Re: I crash & burn after getting a number

    Just use texting to set about a meeting. Don't try to get to know her through texting. Give it a day after you get her number then set up a date somewhere, that way they see you and not just words on a screen my man.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: I crash & burn after getting a number

    I totally agree with Yolo007 on this one. I'd text her to arrange for a meet up and get to know her better. Then you'll be able to interact better physically and verbally. You can read her body language, tone of voice and etc.

    Don't worry too much, I got a girls number at university and her last message was mentioning that she was at university the next day and that day was busy for her. The next day at roughly 11am I sent a text message arranging a meetup for a coffee at university but unfortunately I never heard back. Also a tip on the text messaging is not to be too keen and be patient. I believe I was too eager and that's what messed me up.


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