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    NKNK is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Urgent help required bros!!!

    Number closed on a girl today in the street. Well a clothes store shop assistant to be precise!

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    She approached me regarding an item of clothing I was looking at and conversation stemmed from there and naturally flowed for 10-15 minutes. She seemed a little nervous constantly adjusting the same clothes on the rack nearby. I told her I had to shoot off, got her number, and that I would drop her a cheeky text later to let her know it was me.
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    I gave it between 1-2 hours before texting her the following:

    ME: Hey (Girl's name) was nice meeting you earlier! They still got you working over there or you managed to break away? lol Nick - camo crazy guy x

    *Note - i was looking for items of army/camo gear for this thing tomorrow im doing.

    HER (Instant reply): Heya! Haha thank god I finished at 6! Was nice meeting you too x

    ME (30min reply - was working): ah thats cool. If only I could scheme up a way to get out. any creative ideas? x

    HER (15min): Hahahahaha wish I could tell you! X


    Basically I'm not getting much back off her to feed off and take the conversation forward. Because I was busy working I decided not to text back and also to see whether she would re-initiate the conversation. Haven't heard back yet (4hrs).

    Wondering what is my next best move (if any?). Please be kind to me, I'm still new to this. Any opinions, critique or suggestions are welcome. Also ASAP too...Thanks!!

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    Default Re: Urgent help required bros!!!

    Just send a few more texts, then end convosation + leave it for a few days. Maybe open up the next texting convo with info on how handy the army gear was on your thing.

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    Default Re: Urgent help required bros!!!

    Escalate. It's your job to direct the interaction. Lots of girls get the buyers remorse effect after handing out their number so move quickly. Ask her out. Something along the lines of:

    "Get Starbucks with me at (time) on (day). I want to see who you are when you're not at work "

    Btdubs I don't recommend Starbucks lol. The best venues are local businesses, not chains. It provides for a more stimulating experience. Also you can get to know those who work there and the social proof makes you look good.
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    Default Re: Urgent help required bros!!!

    Thanks chaps. I sent her a message and reinitiated a couple of days ago. The conversation was going well, some slight escalating and she was asking questions back unlike previously.

    Until the question I knew was coming...and it came:

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    Her: Next week !! I was just wondering how old are you? X

    Me: Oh that soon..hang in there! I was actually thinking the same about you. How old you think i am? x

    Her: Im trying!! Haha umm 23ish? How old do you think i am? X

    Me: lol...originally I thought you were 20 something but i guess you mentioned college so maybe less. Im 28. How old are you? x

    Her: 20!? Really? Im 17 haha x

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    BAMM did not expect that at all! I knew she was younger, but not by that much. In the street she held conversation very well and her personality was great. Definitely nothing like most 17-20's I've come across!

    The conversation kinda died from that point and it was obvious that age wise she thought I was a little too old for her. On paper I agree, but I can't help but remember how good her personality in person was! So realising she was now knocking me back, i decided i would play the cool card (perhaps was a mistake?):

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    Me: Nothing to be sorry about I respect that.. would be a shame to not stay in touch, but whatever makes you comfortable x

    Her: Oh I'll happily be friends you seem lovely! X

    Me: Glad to hear..and yes you are right! haha Anyway im gonna catch up on some sleep now. Good luck with the revision. ttyl x
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    My thoughts are I'll leave it as it is for a week. I've got other girls and prospects elsewhere, but I won't discard this girl completely purely because of her great personality and HB9 looks. Im more open to using her to experiment and using her as a challenge. Perhaps you guys can help me along the way and I'll pick up the pointers.

    What would you do next or text her next?

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    Default Re: Urgent help required bros!!!

    You're life and morals, but I would be out. I'm currently at the summer between my sophomore and junior year in college. I don't like to go any lower than sophomores. I have always found dating up to be much more rewarding on all levels.
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    Default Re: Urgent help required bros!!!

    Bro....
    No....

    She's too young. Think about the sh1t it could get you into.
    "Hey daughter, who's this 28 year old you've been flirting with"

    911!

    Oh sh1t. Just sayin mayne.

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    Default Re: Urgent help required bros!!!

    Hey man I wouldn't do it if I were you. I'm 24 going on 25, vet so I act lil older, and I just got out of a relationship with a 18 yr old. worst decision ever bruh. felt like I was her dad. DROP HER BRUH!!!!
    Sometimes fighting your destiny only brings it closer.


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