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    Smile 1 week no contact-how to reinitiate

    Ok was thinking of giving a girl I've bedded a week of no contact agreed by both parties

    Any good lines to reinitiate?

    Realised we need to go back to friend zone and restart I screwed it up had a lot going on became a bit too needy.
    I know we both like each other and when were together its smooth sailing but only get to see her 1 or 2 times a month.

    Prob need to apologise but dnt think that's the right move or is it?

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    Default Re: 1 week no contact-how to reinitiate

    First off you don't want to friend zone your self, you're trying to recover from being friend zoned by becoming to needy. Secondly never apoligize for doing what you need to do that would be an AFC move. You could say something like "I haven't been at the top of my game lately so how about we start over" by saying something like that you're not making excuses yet still getting the point across. Don't suggest being friends that won't help you in this case. If she doesn't want to start over or wants to be just friends say "That's to bad, nice having met you" and be done with her. She might end up chasing you later down the road.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: 1 week no contact-how to reinitiate

    Sounds like good advice I that line

    To add context to the situation is as follows she's HB9 easy and only 18 me being 25

    Ok met a girl in a nightclub got her no and she txt me the nxt day.Met up 4 weeks later for a day out and overnight stay and bedded her. We then txt for a while and arranges to meet up but shortly before we meet she txt to say she wanted me badly but somethings telling her no.

    Anyway the day later at 5 am she txt said she been crying can we sort things out she wants a proper relationship blah blah blah
    So I entertain this idea-4 days later same sh1t ends up in me begging(don't ask I must have been stressed)

    Anyway haven't managed to see her again had the scenario above for a couple of weeks then

    Couple days ago I lose the plot say I'm going out on a date-she txts me all night ending in she wants to give it another go cause she has feelings for me and our nite together was special,following morning same rubbish I'm not happy everything felt fine last night now somethings changing so I say no worries

    So same tact just?

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    Default Re: 1 week no contact-how to reinitiate

    Yeah I'd stick to the same tact cause although you were needy so was she at times. Tell her you wanna restart. This time don't have as much contact try to remain mysterious and don't put up with any needy behavior. Besides that stick to the same plan and you'll be golden.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: 1 week no contact-how to reinitiate

    Update had a convo with her today she said she was in town with another guy having food but kept txting
    Also reckoned she was seeing someonelse I said it's cool I've been dating the gym instructor lol
    When I broaches meeting up she said not too sure:\ but then went on to use the bank robbery line and we had a laugh got a lot of ok ha ha though

    So any tips for nxt steps told her I had to go as was on motorway and didn't want to die
    She also asked me a few questions about some results I'm waiting for

    Was thinking dropping a txt bout 6-7pm 5 hrs time saying
    I'm alive u can stop worrying now!

    Thoughts guys
    I also can txt Thursday with results


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