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    St.Jonny is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default dumped cus she caught me out...

    Hi all, new here and looking to learn.

    Just wanted to share the story as to why im recently single before I start learning the ways of a PUA.

    Basically I was with a girl for 6 weeks and it was all good...until she saw on my facebook that I had messaged other girls. Obviously she went mad and said she couldn't trust me and ended it. This is an understandable reaction...just not sure if i should try and get her back, or stay single and get on with it. Also any tips on the best ways to get her back...she obviously still likes me its quite clear but shes just hurt at the moment.

    What do we think?

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    Default Re: dumped cus she caught me out...

    Eh Id say let her go. Its very possible you can get her back but shes gonna snoop and stalk till she catches you doing something else cut your loses bro theres more women than men on this earth

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    Default Re: dumped cus she caught me out...

    Not enough information mate. So what if you messaged girls on facebook. I message girls on facebook all the time, I text girls, and I call girls, I also have a girlfriend, I also talk to random girls infront of my girlfriend when we are out.
    But if you made a big deal out of it you are probably screwed. What if your just a nice social guy that is friendly and likes to talk, text, message, what ever. it depends what you sent and how you reacted when she told you.

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    Default Re: dumped cus she caught me out...

    i guess its only a matter of time

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    Default Re: dumped cus she caught me out...

    the main message was to one of my sisters mates who i had just been on a night out with and id been flirting with all night (obviously my gf wasn't there)...so when i got home i added her on facebook and the message read "so you gonna give me your number now then? xx".

    this is the one that sent her crazy. my reaction was to try and be cool and just act like it was a friendly message to a friend but she wasn't buying it.

    Interestingly I haven't spoken to her for 3 days since this happened...but she text me this morning saying "did you just ring me from an unknown number?". not really sure what to say to that...i didn't ring her but is this some kind of Sh1t Test?

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    Default Re: dumped cus she caught me out...

    You could be really cheeky and reply. "WHO IS THIS? Are you the girl that looks really CUTE especially when your angry? the one I havent talked to for a few days!
    Wasnt me calling, but you have my number now if you want to talk. Actually you even know where I live, dont stalk me though."

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    Default Re: dumped cus she caught me out...

    If you were in a long term relationship or married it would be a little different but because its been only 6 weeks if you want her back you have to let her know she does not own you at such a short stage into the relationship so don't grovel or apologise back into her life. She will melt back to you if you accept you were flirting and tell her your heart is hers or something touching... but she will always be jealous and watching you. So either move on or tell her what you want honestly (which sounds like a casual relationship otherwise you wouldn't be flirting with your sisters friends haha).

    One golden rule I have used on every women I meet is to be really upfront and honest about what I want out of the relationship. Ok I don't usually say this until Ive slept with them so I could be called out for being deceitful by that, but what I mean is as soon as the relationship is physical I usually tell them where they stand. It has always led to good relationships and understanding. They see it as a man who is confident about what he wants, makes no excuses and they will have to be competetive to get me. Ive never had a bad breakup in my life. Breaking up with girls can be just as rewarding as picking them up because sometimes they will come back for seconds . Most guys instantly know with a girl if they want this to be a fling or a long term relationship. If I meet a girl and I know I only want her sexually, after Ive had my fun I will say something like 'Im not sure we would be good as boyfriend girlfriend' or 'what are you talking about? Marriage soulmates, BF/GF? Ive only just met you!'. The women Ive met are of course often upset to hear this because after the physical mashup they almost always fall deeply in love with you. If I don't want this I nip it in the bud. Often these girls I let go and keep moving on to other girls but an interesting thing would happen. Because we never broke off in any horrible way and because I told them upfront and honestly I was looking for something more casual they will often call me up a few weeks, months or even years later and we end up back in the sack for some fun. Not all girls will do this of course, they will move on too and forget about you but Ive had many who perhaps think 'well he doesn't want me as a GF, but having a little bit of him is better than nothing'. I dont really know what they think but they have called me up saying things like 'what are you doing now? Im in the area, can I come over?'. Of course you can come over! They at least know where they stand with me and I don't have to go through any worries about girls looking at my messages or jealousy etc. I will only deal with that sort of thing if it is a long term commitment with a girl I really care about. Then I give 100% and dont cheat or flirt and sleep well at night. Sure check my messages, you won't find anything. If the girl I am seeing is not going to be that type of girl I dont delude them into thinking she could be.


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