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    96hnr is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Being Called A Friend??

    (Sorry if this is the wrong section fairly new to the forums)

    So I've been talking to this girl off and on after a cousin of mine introduced me to her about 2 months ago. I can only see here every other weekend due to living in different cities and i have other priorities i need to take care of on those weekends, also we mostly communicate through FB or texting. Every time i go to the city which she lives in we usually only meet up at parties. I think this girl is interested in me but she occasionally calls me "friend". Now she doesn't say it often and also not in a way where it feels like shes hinting to me that she isn't interested. With all that being said I'm just worried if being called "friend" period is a sign of being dropped in the friend zone. I would really like to pursue a Girlfriend/Boyfriend relationship with her.

    (if you guys need more info as in the conversations shes used friend etc. or any info period in order to analyze the situation I'll be more then glad to post it)

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    Default Re: Being Called Friend??

    Next time she uses the term "friend" respond like so:

    "Woah, no need to use labels."

    She'll blah blah, basically questioning what you just said and why you said it. Then you can move into cocky funny:

    "I just don't want you to run into a complex when you accidentally kiss me ;P"

    Feel free to adjust accordingly.
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    Default Re: Being Called Friend??

    I actually respond straight up with "whoa, don't friend zone me." That way they know what it is...

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    Default Re: Being Called Friend??

    If she calls you friend and she's known you for two months, you're friend zoned to me. Especially when you're texting and FB messaging and (I think) you haven't expressed your true intentions.

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    Default Re: Being Called Friend??

    At which point, i'm not scared to lose the relationship, or friend her up so I can get at her friends.


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