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View Poll Results: Should a thank-you letter be sent?

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    Lightbulb Send a Thank You Letter to Ex's Parents

    I'm in a small dilemma. My debate is whether or not to send a thank you letter to my now ex's parents. My thoughts are this may display AFC tendencies. To the contrary, if written properly, it could be alpha as it may dhv, because, really which males actually write to the parents after a split?

    I truly wish to thank them for all they have done, indeed, this would leave off at a good note. Both are just wonderful and thoughtful people, great role models to be around.

    Background info: We walked away from our relationship at its pinnacle. That is, we left at a state of bliss, with no hard feelings or resentment. Reasoning: After a mature conversation, we realized that at this point in our lives, developing something that serious may not be so beneficial to our personal growth as individuals.

    The right thing at the wrong time, is still the wrong thing.

    Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Send a Thank You Letter to Ex's Parents

    Saying 'thank you' is not an AFC tendency. In fact, a lot of successful alpha employers say it a lot more than the average man. It causes his staff to feel better and he gains some respect in their eyes. If the parents have really done some helpful stuff for you and/or your ex then you should just write the note because both helpfulness and gratitude are rare things nowadays.

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    Default Re: Send a Thank You Letter to Ex's Parents

    I myself am totally an AFC, but I would say the thank you note is a total bad ass idea! My vote would be to send it too!

    Ro


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