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    Default where did I go wrong with message to girl?

    I see a lot of lingo being thrown around neg, AFC a bunch of other crap that I don't understand lol.

    Anyway, I been trying to work on my game. I got out of a 3 year long relationship and that girl sucked everything out of me.. I dont even know how to deal with women anymore it seems

    So I scope this girls profile, notice she talks about wanting a guy her age or younger, and that she believes in chivalry so I send her:

    "our age or younger? That is a new one lol. You know I actually had a girl get mad at me once for trying to be all chivalrous and opening the door for her.. "what are you doing, you think I cant open a door on my own?" Needless to say there was not a second date lmao"

    she instantly messages back

    "hahahahah that's funny so what are u up to today?"

    and Im just like.. fark this girl is boring as sh1t she just gave me fark all to go on.. so that's where I think I farked things up when I said

    "haha, couldn't think of anything better to say? :P I kid I kid.

    Im not really up to anything tonight, gonna hop in the shower and maybe head out for a bit, nothing is really ever set in stone for me. What about you?"

    Figured I would tease her a bit for being lame as fark and let her know what I was actually up to, and return the question because its only natural right?

    I haven't heard anything since.. with her first message it was obvious she was into me on some level and she had read my profile.. but I guess I ruined whatever attraction she had built?

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    Default Re: where did I go wrong with message to girl?

    You haven't said anything with chivalry to HER yet, don't be too cheeky until you get to know her better. What were you expecting her to say? Her message was good, she laughed and asked you a question back. That's when you should have planted something valuable about yourself instead of criticising her and then ironicly saying your not up to much, having a shower and maybe going out. Isn't that boring and lame? Set something in stone. You should have said 'I'm going to see a band' or 'I'm looking up holidays online deciding which exotic location to travel to', that sort of thing. That would have opened her curiosity. She doesn't have much to go on either if your not up to much or having a shower but if you say your up to something interesting she is more likely to write back 'which band?' or 'I love travel - I want to go to France!' whatever it is. Your not only raising your value but finding out things about her. If you want to recover be nice to her, win her trust back. Don't be afraid to say you were being a bit cheeky last time. It will empower you more than detract your control. Girls don't like guys being patheticly nice ALL the time but most girls do like a gentlemen. Good luck

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    Default Re: where did I go wrong with message to girl?

    true say.. that makes complete sense.

    thanks

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    Default Re: where did I go wrong with message to girl?

    when you replied "could not think of anything better to say" it also might have told her that you spent a long time thinking about the opener you sent her, thus nullifying the her genuine response into being just an after thought...just my reaction my friend. Good luck !!!

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    Default Re: where did I go wrong with message to girl?

    Yeah, she obviously found your message funny. As a guy you gotta be able to entertain her and not her you. Especially as a PUA, we're suppose to be entertainers and have them open up to us. I've met plenty of girls who start off with txting "how r u?" to being weathered into joking about something that happend to them or something they really like. What I'm trying to say is it takes more then 2 messages to get a girl to be herself around you. Just like you are worried about your first impression with her, so is she.

    There are a lot of ways you could have gone with your 2nd message. One being boasting about something interesting you did or other being over exaggerating a simple task in your life to where it's comically funny.


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