Ok so I'm a long time reader and a first time poster, (just subscribed.) This is a long post, but I want to give the whole story to aid with any advice.
About a week and a half ago I met a blonde HB9+ at the car races, she was a grid girl and of course, all the guys were fawning over her and the other (brunette) grid girl she was there with.
I basically ignored her and constantly told her to get back to work while chatting to the other who was a brunette HB9 herself, (I never demonstrated interest in either and constantly negged the brunette whilst reinforcing with DHVs) this worked wonders and the blonde was constantly butting in on our conversations.
Eventually we all went out to dinner on the last night of the races with the team and sponsors, I managed to isolate the blonde and then the other girl came and joined in. It was a pretty awesome feeling I'll admit,as I'd consider myself an 8.
Well she mentioned that she worked just around the corner and I stated that I knew the place 'cause I live close by. I got a Number Close by saying we should grab a drink one time after work, what sold it though was when the brunette said "Oh, you're too cool to ask for my number though?!"
The blonde offered to give me a lift home and I kiss closed in the car. I then texted her the next day and didn't mention anything about catching up, she reciprocated and after bantering and teasing for a couple of days I got a meet up on the Thursday for drinks.
We had an awesome night and she asked to stay at mine, so I got the full close.
Next morning I dropped her at work and she gave me a kiss as she left the car. Since then the texting has been less frequent, I don't respond unless she does. Even though she mentioned that she in 'never the one to text first.' I call BS on that, I'm not going to be a chump.
So two days without a reply to one of my texts (I was trying the punishment theory to show I'm not dependent on her or needy) and I thought I'd give one last text last night saying we should grab lunch this week cause I'm working nights, she didn't reply so I deleted her number this morning and all her texts, can't msg her if I don't have her details (I don't have FB as it gets you in trouble, too many girls see your other girl friends and it gets messy, also makes me an enigma I think, could be wrong!)
Lo and behold I get a message that reads ' sounds good gonna be really busy this week but hopefully wednesday? ill let ya know' (sic)
So my question is how to respond? She almost flaked on me and fell off my radar, it sounds like she's asking for permission about Wednesday, but giving herself the option to flake.
I need to lock her in because I know that my face to face game is solid and we actually genuinely get on, plus we've already slept together so that's a non-issue, she even sh1t tested me by saying I had a good body, I just used the Style answer to a compliment and said 'thanks'.
Any help appreciated!