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    Default Re: not sure if she is into me or not

    well we both talked about it and neither of us want to get married until we are in our 30s we both think the same way. but she likes guys more then girls she very rarely gets with them anyway. she is very open to dating though she dates a few guys but they never last because she gets bored with them and she says she is never bored talking to me

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    Default Re: not sure if she is into me or not

    well lol whatever i did worked. so yea thanks for the help im off to have a lot of fun now
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: not sure if she is into me or not

    Sounds like your being friendzoned just like mr.1000 mentioned. Try to flirt with her, take the step. Good luck!
    Love isn't just about hugs and kisses. It's about trust, compromises, sacrifices & the will for the relationship to last.

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    Default Re: not sure if she is into me or not

    no dude lol we are gonna have a 3 way with one of her friends and she wants me to stay with her for a week lol not in the friend zone any more just saying
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: not sure if she is into me or not

    A few red flags here:

    1.) if she's really a "hard 10", then she can basically date anyone she wants and you can guarantee she has 20 guys a day checking her out, 15 of them chatting her up, 10 of them she thinks are cute, 5 of them actually turning her on... she's at college, which is a place to explore and discover... she's not used to ever hearing "no" and never get a traffic ticket from a cop.

    2.) She talks about other guys to you... that sounds more like you're a girlfriend or the gay friend... what's next? dating advise? go shoe shopping together?

    3.) She tells you her friend may be interested in you: no girl in to you would ever point out the competition.

    4.) She's already making demands of what you have to do and you are being lead by a leash (like you have to go clubbing with her)... why arent YOU making the plans

    5.) She wants you to hang out with her and her friends... any girl that's into you wants to be isolated and alone with you... not include you among her entourage... you are becoming her gay friend.

    6.) YOU... the way that you cant make heads or tails about this, up and down, feel a bit uneasy, confused is proof you are NOT in control of this, she already knows it which means her interest level in you is much lower than yours is in her... no girl, especially a hot "hard 10" who has her choices anywhere and everywhere would ever respect a guy that she can easily have and trust me, no girl would ever consider letting you touch them if she didnt respect you, let alone sleep with her... she's got her choice of college studs making her moan and orgasm... how do you think you're going to compete with that?

    dude, get a hold of yourself a stop sweating this girl... way too many others out there in your proximity, you're just asking for a beating here.

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    Default Re: not sure if she is into me or not

    Hot girls at college, dont go online looking for guys that are nowhere close to them... unless she's playing you up for a variety of reasons...

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    Default Re: not sure if she is into me or not

    we dated and she said she fell in love with me but we broke up because she is scared of commitment. so lets re cap no friend zone. 3 way never happened she didnt want another girl touching me lol. her whole family loves me and all her friends love me. she still loves me i know she hasnt done anything with anyone else because i know her friends and they say she isnt as happy as she use to be. shes only fallen in love one other time. so i think i win here well kinda
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: not sure if she is into me or not

    oh and the town her parents live in is only 10 minutes away they are great people lol
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: not sure if she is into me or not

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    we dated and she said she fell in love with me but we broke up because she is scared of commitment. so lets re cap no friend zone. 3 way never happened she didnt want another girl touching me lol. her whole family loves me and all her friends love me. she still loves me i know she hasnt done anything with anyone else because i know her friends and they say she isnt as happy as she use to be. shes only fallen in love one other time. so i think i win here well kinda
    Let's recap... no girl is scared of a commitment, she doesnt want one with you. Girls that are "in love" dont dump you, unless you have done something to make their interest level go down... she wants to be free. The old "break up because of fear" is a nice way of saying, hey, its okay, but you arent making me hot for you that much, sorry, gotta move on.
    If she's a hotty, trust me, she's moved on and moved on well and trying to keep tabs on her via her friends/family is not going to tell you anything and is sort of creepy/stalkerish. Your interest level in her is way higher than her's is in you and you are not facing facts, picking up your balls wherever you left them and moving on like a true alpha male does.

    "Oh I love you, but we need to break up because Im scared of commitment"... dude, what's your gut feeling telling you? Have you let your puppy dog love take over that much that you dont see it? The cold hard facts are that she does see other guys and she has and will most likely be sleeping with other guys who do "do it for her"... why arent you out meeting new women, getting their numbers, doing your thing?

    If Im being harsh, its because I know what its like to be young, naive and a "nice guy"... dude, you werent a challenge for her at all, she had the upper hand and still does and here's the kicker: NEVER can you go back... this doesnt work and never has... that's it, be a man, deal with it and move on...

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    Default Re: not sure if she is into me or not

    i never asked about her they just told me. and well i was motivated to do anything with my life when we broke up so that was kinda a big reason lol i am meeting new women i already have had 2 dates going on another one today and another on friday ive been getting lots of numbers. i have told my self if she wants to move on then so do i
    im on a different level


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