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    Bigr0n is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help with cute waitress that I met Saturday night.

    This passed Saturday I ate at an Italian restaurant for my friends birthday and the waitress was cute so I told my friends I was going to make the move after we paid for our bill. While at the table I made some small talk and she wasnt wearing a name tag so I said "where's your name tag?" and she replied with "they don't give us one" and I said "well what's your name" and she replied with "Kelsey" so I ended up getting her name so when we were all leaving I went to where she was at and said "hey Kelsey, I'm Ronnie. I would like to take you out to dinner sometime. Would that b alright?" and she replied with "yeah" and I said ok cool here put your number on my phone and I'll get in touch with you." and she did. I couldn't really build much of anything seeing as she was pretty busy and I didn't want to get her in trouble. But 2 hours after I left the restaurant with her number I texted her "Happy to run into you tonight * -Ronnie" I was thinking she would reply with atleast an okay or something but it's Monday now and still no reply. I know it's not cool to txt a chick but I did it to make her feel comfortable with me for the next time I contacted her to arrange a date and I had givin her my name in the txt so she wouldn't be nervous about talking to me bc she forgot my name or something. My question is what in the hell do I do from here do I call her or maybe she can't recieve or send txt idk if she gave me her number just to be nice or what. I want to get her out on a date though what should I do and how long do I wait to call her ?

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    Default Re: Need help with cute waitress that I met Saturday night.

    I know there are alot of pros on this site and I really need help any advise would be greatly appreciated. I'm pretty much begging like a biatch

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    Default Re: Need help with cute waitress that I met Saturday night.

    One - she's a waitress, she will be tired, it may not be the only thing she does (study?) and she may have been busy.
    Two - it's completely ok to text her, it's expected
    Three - did you call her number when she entered it to your phone? Is it a correct or real number?

    Ring her up and ask her out - if she doesn't reply to her mobile, ring the restaurant when she's working.

    You didn't have much time to get to know her, there's nothing you can do about that. Be bold and call her. Texts are just 1 function of a phone. If she's pans you move on.

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    Default Re: Need help with cute waitress that I met Saturday night.

    Thanks for your reply. No but I had a friend of mine call it off of a private number the next day and it was legit. Her voicemail was an automatic message though so it could be anyone's number for all I know.... If I call her up at work wouldn't that be creeper status? I want to text again but I don't want to seem needy or anything. If I text her tonight or call wouldnt it be beta? My friend works there also with her maybe I can get him to talk to her for me?....that sounds childish though

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    Default Re: Need help with cute waitress that I met Saturday night.

    Calling her up at work was a suggestion if the number she gave you didn't work or she does not respond to anything. If your friend works there that could be an advantage. He could mention on your behalf 'I heard you met my friend the other day, yeah he's a good guy' or perhaps more of a priority 'does she have a boyfriend?'. Him mentioning you might guilt trip her a bit. But ya know if she wants to go out with you she will. Girls are engineering the situation too. Also being a waitress at a restaurant - maybe the last thing she wants to do for a date is go out to a restaurant! Ask a waitress out offering something fresh and different from a dining experience initially. Plus waitress's are always getting hit on. Call or text her asking her out again and if she still stays idle move on.

    It's a numbers game. You can't get every girl, just increase the number of people you meet and increase your chances with who you do meet. You were a gentlemen in asking her out. I suspect she's got a BF, something weird going on or she's not worth it because your correct, she should have texted you back out of pure human courtesy. You plucked up the courage to ask her out and she couldn't even write a sentence back. Maybe you deserve better?

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    Default Re: Need help with cute waitress that I met Saturday night.

    Okay thanks bro. I think this weekend I'm just going to go to the mall and try to talk to as many girls as I can I heard that makes you better at pickin up

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    Default Re: Need help with cute waitress that I met Saturday night.

    ....and I wish I could be myself but even when I try I feel like a goof I suck at pick up lines and suck at being funny unless I'm making fun of myself. And suck at structuring my sentences right unless I write it down. I haven't been on a damn date since February and self esteem is slowly diminishing. But prac makes perfect there's nothing more that I want than to figure girls out.

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    Default Re: Need help with cute waitress that I met Saturday night.

    Yep talk to everyone and anyone. Go to the mall and as soon as you see the hottest girl go up to her not to ask her out but ask her something random like directions. Walk off saying thanks. This gets you super Hot Babe approach experience without the anxiety of getting a number and you never know you might bump into her again someday. Repeat over and over. Go up to the ugliest girls you can find and do the same thing. You might see that the ugly girls are bitter and twisted and harder to talk to and the good looking ones helpful and compassionate. Good looking girls are often the easiest to talk to because they always get hit on so they have practice at handling that situation. Go up to younger girls, older women and do the same thing. Next time make the conversations longer. Have a little payback, go up to a girl and tune her madly then say 'nice chatting, might see you around sometime' and walk off. She's expecting a number hit but you dont give it. That gets you experience chatting up girls without any goals of closure, numbers or dates crowding your mind...as well as a little neg/hot/cold experience.

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    Default Re: Need help with cute waitress that I met Saturday night.

    Thanks buddy I'll def take your advise I wish I had a Wing but I'll just do it by myself haha


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