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    96hnr is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Does this girl like me?

    Ok so basically i went on a 2nd date with this girl ive been really starting to like and want to see if you guys think she likes me etc.

    During the date at first she seemed somewhat disinterested (playing with phone etc.)but towards the end she seemed to start paying more interest in me. At one point during the date she asked for my hand and grabbed it interlocking our fingers and then went on to say "look now where boyfriend/girlfriend" but then let go after 2 seconds and said "Just kidding". Now i don't know if this is necessarily a good or bad sign and would like some input from you guys. Also she took away my phone and tried to go into my FB account but when i tried to take it away from her(playfully) she would ball up in the car and wouldn't let go of my hand when i would reach for it, during this she also lightly bit me in a playful manner threatening she was going to bite harder if i didn't let her see my phone. Lastly, i would want to know if a girl offering you some of her drink is an ioi (i read somewhere that it is a very good sign if a girl does this and it usually means she likes you/interested.)

    Any insight would be appreciated i wouldn't mind pursuing a relationship with this girl but first i would like to find out if she likes me.

    (Excuse my bad grammar and formatting English isn't my first language also i can give more examples of Kino that happened during the date etc.)

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    Default Re: Does this girl like me?

    Yes, she is into you.

    Here's a couple options when a girl texts in your presence:
    Start walking away. When she catches up to you, say you don't waste your time on people who don't appreciate yours.
    Ask her, "Who are you texting?"
    "*She responds.*"
    "Oh, would you rather be with them?"

    The first one is asshole, high-risk game. The second is more playful like a neg.
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    Default Re: Does this girl like me?

    Shes definitely interested in you. Good advice from mr 1000 walking away works wonders just like haggling in a foreign marketplace to get the price down. She's made a few playful moves on you - what did you do with her physically? Next time be the leading man. Escalate. Next date go for a kiss. If she asks to see your FB show her unless you really have something serious to hide.

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    Default Re: Does this girl like me?

    the biting is a sign you should of made some funny sexual remark like ( hey ! your not suppose to bite! ) or tell her to kiss it to make it feel better. either way you should make some kind of move she is very interested in you

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    Default Re: Does this girl like me?

    Thanks for all the responses, another point id like to bring up is during the date the girl put a sticker on her mouth and said "Im going to wear this around school etc. so no one can kiss me" what was this supposed to mean? And she said this during the same date she was flirting, biting, and using lots of Kino on me.

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    Default Re: Does this girl like me?

    Quote Originally Posted by 96hnr View Post
    Thanks for all the responses, another point id like to bring up is during the date the girl put a sticker on her mouth and said "Im going to wear this around school etc. so no one can kiss me" what was this supposed to mean? And she said this during the same date she was flirting, biting, and using lots of Kino on me.
    Who cares what it means, next time you see her say 'I have a sticker for your lips' then kiss her.

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    Default Re: Does this girl like me?

    Wow! I do not like this girl's attitude. I think that she has given you some signs, but in a way that is her being a 'cock tease'. I wrote about this exact behavior on my blog.

    A Cock Tease is a woman who, from the male perspective, acts in a sexual manner that seems to have the intention of seducing a man, but without actually fulfilling the expected sexual actions.

    I HATE saying this about women but some are FAKE FLIRTS who just enjoy the attention.

    You want to weed these women out as you deserve better!

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    Quote Originally Posted by 96hnr View Post
    Ok so basically i went on a 2nd date with this girl ive been really starting to like and want to see if you guys think she likes me etc.

    During the date at first she seemed somewhat disinterested (playing with phone etc.)but towards the end she seemed to start paying more interest in me. At one point during the date she asked for my hand and grabbed it interlocking our fingers and then went on to say "look now where boyfriend/girlfriend" but then let go after 2 seconds and said "Just kidding". Now i don't know if this is necessarily a good or bad sign and would like some input from you guys. Also she took away my phone and tried to go into my FB account but when i tried to take it away from her(playfully) she would ball up in the car and wouldn't let go of my hand when i would reach for it, during this she also lightly bit me in a playful manner threatening she was going to bite harder if i didn't let her see my phone. Lastly, i would want to know if a girl offering you some of her drink is an ioi (i read somewhere that it is a very good sign if a girl does this and it usually means she likes you/interested.)

    Any insight would be appreciated i wouldn't mind pursuing a relationship with this girl but first i would like to find out if she likes me.

    (Excuse my bad grammar and formatting English isn't my first language also i can give more examples of Kino that happened during the date etc.)

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    Default Re: Does this girl like me?

    I know this post is old but there seems to be a plethora of wisdom here. Plus the subject matches my post perfectly. Here's what's up.

    I've run into this very cute girl 3 or 4 times over the past 14 months. Our interactions only last a minute or two although everytime I see her she makes eye contact and smiles at me. The times I've seen her she is sitting, facing me head on with her arms not crossed. Positive signs right?

    Now here's the kicker, the girl I'm referring to is the cashier at the car dealership where I take my car for service. When I see her she's performing her cashierly duties i.e. taking my money, printing receipts. It's possible to use this to explain away her behavior that maybe she was taught to act this way with customers. "Smile and make eye contact" so the customer feels important. "Face the customer without your arms crossed" to make the customer feel welcome. Also, there's a counter as tall as my stomach between us which might act as a barrier that makes her feel safe enough that she doesn't need to cross her arms.

    She never touches her hair while I'm there but there are two other signals I picked up on. (Yay for noticing signals!) First, during one of our encounters I told a joke (not sure if it was funny, I think all my jokes are funny) and she laughed. It seemed like she was laughing much harder than normal almost trying to make me feel good about myself. Second, during another encounter she was on a break sitting behind the cashier that was helping me. I can't remember if she glanced at me when I walked into the room but once I was in there she was staring at her phone with a smirk on her face. I felt like she was tempting me to talk to her. I didn't of course because I'm a coward but also because I wasn't sure if she even knew I was in the room.

    I'm having touble deciphering these signals. On one hand they all seem positive but taken in context I don't know if they really amount to all that much. Someone suggested to try to observe how she interacts with other customers and see if the behavior is the same or unique to me. This isn't really an option because I can't just hang around her all day.

    I know someone is going to say who cares about the signals if you find her attractive just ask her out. I want to and I've thought of a couple funny things to say but the problem is my mind goes blank everytime I see her. It doesn't just happen with her but with every women I've ever been attracted to. I'm thinking this is why I've been single for my whole life, all 25 years worth. :-(

    In summation, am I correct to infer these signals mean there is some genuine interest on her end? If my mind goes blank when I talk to her should I just fess up and say "I'm trying to make you laugh so I can ask you out but I'm falling flat on my face. How about we exchange numbers so we can go out to dinner sometime and I can try again."? I doubt that sh*t even works unless she's falling head over heels for me.

    I'm going back to the dealership soon so that's why I'm asking these questions and looking for an objective view on my situation. The girl might not even be there but if she is it's been long enough and I need to make my move, pronto.


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