saw you edited that.. okay, so as an average looking girl, I should be a bit inaccessible to up the attraction. Makes sense
I'm in my early 20's btw just as a reference point. many guys don't seem willing to put in the extra effort.
another factor is the idea of "if you want sex just go for it" in this age group - I was always comfortable with it, just didn't see how detrimental it is to actually dating and gaining respect