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    allr3 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl looking for advice.

    saw you edited that.. okay, so as an average looking girl, I should be a bit inaccessible to up the attraction. Makes sense

    I'm in my early 20's btw just as a reference point. many guys don't seem willing to put in the extra effort.

    another factor is the idea of "if you want sex just go for it" in this age group - I was always comfortable with it, just didn't see how detrimental it is to actually dating and gaining respect

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    Default Re: Girl looking for advice.

    Quote Originally Posted by allr3 View Post
    saw you edited that.. okay, so as an average looking girl, I should be a bit inaccessible to up the attraction. Makes sense

    I'm in my early 20's btw just as a reference point. many guys don't seem willing to put in the extra effort.

    another factor is the idea of "if you want sex just go for it" in this age group - I was always comfortable with it, just didn't see how detrimental it is to actually dating and gaining respect
    I have no idea what you look like. Some girls are very desirable because they are good at something, have incredible fashion style...it's not just purely looks. I often go for the girl who's a little unusual looking, maybe exotic, or she has a super cute dimple smile, or the way she walks or bites her lip. Or the interesting clothes she wears. The sexy librarian, the designer wearing charcoal colors, the yoga instructor, the paisley hippy chick. I rarely go for the bimbo cheerleader types but I almost always go for a good body can't escape the slim waist to hip ratio factor.

    Some girls Ive dated who had high sex drives or gave up the goods straight away kind of turned me off because it was too easy. I didnt put in extra effort with them especially relationship wise. You'd think guys would love a girl that just puts out all the time but I kinda like the chase and a bit of Tension. Mentally and physically. Other girls who are frigid ice queens have turned me off too, and I would not put in the effort (well sometimes I would haha) so it's finding a balance. Sexual compatibility.

    In your early 20's many people are not thinking about settling down...its an age to play the field and find out what you like and don't like. When you meet the right person for a LTR things will usually happen effortlessly.

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    allr3 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl looking for advice.

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    When you meet the right person for a LTR things will usually happen effortlessly.
    Right. so I like to think as well. I've seen many guys say on forums that basically- if it's the right person, it doesn't matter when she "gives it up," no amount of what is essentially game playing will change the outcome. but more restraint will always be better than less restraint in the meantime.

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    Default Re: Girl looking for advice.

    Just be yourself...if you like having sex have it. When you meet the right guy he will like you for who you are and you will both enjoy doing other things together and spending time in each others company.


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