I know this is somewhat unusual, but I'm a girl who has looked at some of these principles and found them interesting. I like the idea of "inner game" etc. If anyone could give me any advice or resources I'd appreciate it.
I'm fairly attractive but have low self-esteem, convinced myself "all I want is sex," needless to say it left me hurt. Now I want a relationship, but I want to work on myself.
What I realized is that I've just been using betas to boost my self-image... while giving my all to men I sleep with, without asking for anything in return. Which makes me on the same level as my male friends I'm using, in the eyes of the men I sleep with. I know you guys are all about sexually liberated women, but let's face it- we usually lose out in these situations. I want more.. I don't want to have to surround myself with men I'm using, or who are using me. But I'm not used to saying "no".. what are some good ways to go about this?
Sorry if I'm completely misguided in posting here. I've just seen some surprisingly insightful posts on these types of forums and figured why not.