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    Default Profile Picture for social networks..

    hey all, ive been going to the gym for good time now, and i wanted to ask if i should take a picture of my built body as prof pic? or will it look like im too proud or way too confident or anything like that?

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    Default Re: Profile Picture for social networks..

    Yes and no. I personally wouldn't post a pic with your shirt off or anything like that. It might attract certain girls but you want a profile pic that casts out to a wide net.

    Don't smile too much in your pic but look away slightly in a relaxed natural and thoughtful manner like a roman sculpture. Michaelangelos David statue doesn't stare at you or flex. Learn from the art masters. Maybe choose a good shot someone took of you when you didn't know. If you have a good body the girl will be able to tell through clothes...wear a nice casual but elegant shirt and emphasize broad shoulders and the classic V-taper. Make yourself appear tall, slim and athletic. Don't need to flex, show rippling veins or anything like that, most women don't really care. They are more into who you are as a well rounded, successful, happy person and your face and clothes will be far more important in conveying that. A confident guy doesnt need to show off his body. Your body is just an added bonus to who you really are, not something you are too proud of, relying upon in place of personality or hiding behind.

    The bass player in my band works out and is very muscular. He has even admitted to me his body is a physical manifestation of his low self esteem. None of the girls Ive talked to actually care about his body and many dislike that look. He gets frustrated sometimes because they all want me. I am the content leader (singer and guitarist) of the band who focuses on creating good music for the whole audience rather than flexing away in a tight t-shirt just for the ladies.

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    Default Re: Profile Picture for social networks..

    wow man thx a lot.. awesome reply .. gonna take a picture in a slim fit shirt and btw im pretty sure girls like muscular males.. example near the beach i notice them looking at me since im shirtless or when sometimes im wth friends in a club and their female friends come over , they turn round me and ask me to flex or to feel my abs which IMO is a great self esteem boosting, which results in more confidence..

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    Default Re: Profile Picture for social networks..

    Quote Originally Posted by bobat6 View Post
    wow man thx a lot.. awesome reply .. gonna take a picture in a slim fit shirt and btw im pretty sure girls like muscular males.. example near the beach i notice them looking at me since im shirtless or when sometimes im wth friends in a club and their female friends come over , they turn round me and ask me to flex or to feel my abs which IMO is a great self esteem boosting, which results in more confidence..
    No worries, girls certainly like a guy with a good body theres no doubting that, particularly the athletic build, but few like the body builder look is what I was meaning or a guy who's vain about their body. Brains over brawn. Look at all those weedy pale rock stars with hot girls. I also said yes or no in my response because you may not want to cast out a wide net. You may only want to meet fitness girls or beach babes so of course your profile could focus in on that too.

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    Default Re: Profile Picture for social networks..

    totally true ;P im very picky when comes to girls :P they need to pass all my appearance tests before i even talk/approach .. the brains over brawn maybe true but to some extent.. girls wouldn't choose a nerd over a muscular one in my opinion ofcourse

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    Default Re: Profile Picture for social networks..

    Quote Originally Posted by bobat6 View Post
    girls wouldn't choose a nerd over a muscular one in my opinion ofcourse
    Depends on how good the nerd is at being a PUA

    On BBC's secret of the sexes there was a part where they got this guy...he was not geeky or muscular really just an average guy, quite funny too, but was a little down on his luck...and the first day they put him in a window display in his normal clothes and with his normal professional and life details and asked girls to rate him out of the ten. He was scoring around 3-4 out of ten. The next day they put him in a sharp but casual suit without a tie and with some slick shoes, changed his profession to a lawyer or banker or something and asked girls to rate him again. He consistently scored around 8.

    Social/financial status can help. When I was about 25 I never forget this one night I was out. I was also working out in the gym heavily then and was super fit. I am in a creative profession. Took me about 5 minutes of tuning to get this girls eyes to light up with alpha body moves and adding value with my talents. She even complimented me on my body 'you're well built, in good shape'. My balding chubby friend comes along in a suit and she said 'and what do you do?'. "I'm a lawyer'. Her eyes lit up instantly. I still got her though in the end haha. First in first served.

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    Default Re: Profile Picture for social networks..

    Your profile picture is a statement of appeal to your target group. If you want shallow women, post a picture with your shirt off. If you want interesting women, use a picture of you doing something interesting (working on a hobby, at a national monument w/ family.) If you want good women who would see you as a great guy, use an image with social proof, i.e. you laughing with your friends with a girl/guy ratio in your favor.
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    Default Re: Profile Picture for social networks..

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Depends on how good the nerd is at being a PUA

    On BBC's secret of the sexes there was a part where they got this guy...he was not geeky or muscular really just an average guy, quite funny too, but was a little down on his luck...and the first day they put him in a window display in his normal clothes and with his normal professional and life details and asked girls to rate him out of the ten. He was scoring around 3-4 out of ten. The next day they put him in a sharp but casual suit without a tie and with some slick shoes, changed his profession to a lawyer or banker or something and asked girls to rate him again. He consistently scored around 8.

    Social/financial status can help. When I was about 25 I never forget this one night I was out. I was also working out in the gym heavily then and was super fit. I am in a creative profession. Took me about 5 minutes of tuning to get this girls eyes to light up with alpha body moves and adding value with my talents. She even complimented me on my body 'you're well built, in good shape'. My balding chubby friend comes along in a suit and she said 'and what do you do?'. "I'm a lawyer'. Her eyes lit up instantly. I still got her though in the end haha. First in first served.
    yeah ure right haha :P but when i said nerd i also meant unsocially awkward person :P so definately not a PUA..and btw the rating from 4 to 8 because of being lawyer can also mean that girls like money :P lawyer = cash.. and i dont wish to get girls because of money haha..

    Quote Originally Posted by mr.onethousand View Post
    Your profile picture is a statement of appeal to your target group. If you want shallow women, post a picture with your shirt off. If you want interesting women, use a picture of you doing something interesting (working on a hobby, at a national monument w/ family.) If you want good women who would see you as a great guy, use an image with social proof, i.e. you laughing with your friends with a girl/guy ratio in your favor.
    thx for replying .. i choose the good women from those :P but i dont think a picture with friends as a profile picture is good :/ i think u need to be alone in it..

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    Default Re: Profile Picture for social networks..

    I have one outdoor close up of me kinda grinning (not teeth showing) and looking at the camera...one outdoor close up of me smiling (showing teeth) and looking slightly down and away from the camera...the last one is an outdoor body shot (to give the women indication of my build).

    I don't have social prof pics, but so far I've been getting emailed first and have gotten 4 in one week of signing up....This could change as I may want to cast a bigger net.

    Also, I wrote an orginal story to give some info of my personality and at the same time offer up a sample of my work ( i write, but it don't really pay that well yet heh). Brothers let me know what you think of this story in terms of pua'ness.

    So far 3 women have contacted me saying they loved it. (i just have this story and nothing else) Good day my fellow brothers.**

    I like an audience
    so I do things,
    random things

    I was at an Assembly once
    and fell asleep to monotony
    to rasping echos, falling
    into a nursery of short attentions

    the speaker was one bearded neck vocalizing
    safe sex or vote or die or whatever
    I was sleeping anyways, don't matter

    an elbow nudged a lower rib
    and I lifted crusty eyes
    took in a thousand images
    and bit my lower lip yawing
    I mentally told off the dude next to me
    and my head rocked back again

    an elbow again
    f**k it, let's roll

    I pulled out a Marlboro from a shirt pocket
    light it against one hundred gasps
    exhaled into infinity, smoke rings for Jesus
    I guess, whatever

    I stood to stretch my jeans
    but really to see the sea of faces
    all point blank, some laughing
    some judging, most up tight

    the bearded speaker froze
    now every ounce of energy
    turned on me, I took another drag
    I was the Assembly now
    speaker, or whatever
    don't matter, they led me
    into the lime light

    I exhaled into a womans face
    never noticed her really
    because I was on the stage now

    Looking into the sea of cookie cut faces
    I took another drag of the Marlboro
    exhaled thinking about what to do
    up here, king of the mountain
    thinking

    F**k it,
    I pressed a white knuckle
    against a hitch hikers thumb
    knocking my Marlboro back
    to let the mother f***er with
    happy elbows have a sentiment
    of my attention

    **
    if you want to use this, go ahead.

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    Default Re: Profile Picture for social networks..

    ye currently i have one of me smiling not showing my body though (only part of it).. so thats y i wanted to change it ..

    anyways, if u got 4 in a week i dont think we need to rate it in any term ;P ure getting results and its all that counts


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