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Thread: Am I jealous?

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    Default Am I jealous?

    So I was in a date with my gf yesterday, everything went smoothly we had a lot of fun but as I was arriving her home she received a text, I asked her about who she was and she gave me name of a boy, I got pissed, asked her who the hell is that? she vaguely replied "A Friend who was my friend before you" and I got really mad, told her you should cut your other male friends if you want to stay with me. I know she only dates me and others are just her text buddies, but I think they don't let the emotional connection between us to blossom.
    anyway she really got upset and cried the rest of the night.
    Was I wrong?

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    Default Re: Am I jealous?

    It's kinda impossible not to get jealous, otherwise you wouldnt care for her, same with women. But I guess try control the anger and keep tabs on it. Try not let it affect you, she told you honestly about who it was so take that as a positive. She can't help it if she receives a text from an ex can she? The better you are at handling it the more likely she will not gain feelings for her past.

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    Default Re: Am I jealous?

    yesterday,after she got upset and turned her back on me I started begging her to make her happy and tried to explain her that she shouldn't think that way etc, I think I acted kind of beta there right?

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    Default Re: Am I jealous?

    Actually, you acted beta when you had your jealousy freak out. You are her man and she is your woman all you did was create impetuous for her to be dishonest with you. If you were going to be alpha, be alpha all the time.

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    Default Re: Am I jealous?

    Quote Originally Posted by Suave Kino View Post
    Actually, you acted beta when you had your jealousy freak out. You are her man and she is your woman all you did was create impetuous for her to be dishonest with you. If you were going to be alpha, be alpha all the time.
    so what should have I done? how to clean this mess up now?

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    Default Re: Am I jealous?

    Again, be alpha. You can be alpha and say, you know what I was wrong. You haven't given me any reason not to distrust you I shouldn't have acted that way.

    Squash, it. Don't give your girlfriend doubts about you, because as you create that crack some guy will come along and make that crack a chasm.

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    Default Re: Am I jealous?

    You farked up big time in terms of being alpha twice, yeah. You're her man so those other guys should not be any kind of threat to you. She just has to be able to be friends with any guy. Men and women get into relationships to make each other happy, not to make them feel imprisoned because they can't talk to the opposite sex any more. Also, begging her was very, very beta.

    From now on just be more relaxed about her interactions with other men. It'll make her feel better and will help the relationship. The same goes for other women.

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