Ok, here's some background info. I been talking to this chick on and off again since late september 2011. Originally, this was one of my friends girls. But, it all started with this scenario: they like to break up and get back together a lot. So, one day I saw she had posted on her FB page about how big of a douche he was, blah blah. So, I was actually just trying to be a friend and suggested maybe she shouldn't put all her problems out in public like that. She shortly after private messaged me bitching at me. But, one thing lead to another and we started flirting. Fast forwards. We never used to “talk” unless they were broken up. I still saw him as my friend at this point. But, like said they break up frequently so, we began talking more and more. Finally after months of this we ”hooked up.” At this point my friend had caught onto something between us and he and I drifted apart as no longer being friends. So, we started talking regardless of their relationship status pretty much. Fast forwards to this past mothers day weekend. She called me and told me she was “done” with him and that she needed a place to stay. Because, she didn't want to go to her moms where he could find her. So, I opted to get her a hotel until I could come into town that weekend. She was very greatful and wouldn't stop thanking me. So, the weekend rolls around and I'm on my way to see her and what not. But, this is where it gets dumb. She is blatantly blowing me off. She purposely was hanging out with some mutual friends who would rat us out if they saw us together. I personally didn't think it was a big deal since she says she was over the guy but, I obviously she wasn't. So, in a stupid move. I just got tired of her shit and went to reconcile with my friend and told him everything about me and her and we went over to see her together to confront her. Now, obviously I didn't think itd go well between me and her. But, now in an act of desperation he proposed to her and she accepted. I still do care for her but, not sure of what I should do? If you read all that...I applaud you greatly!