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    Default seeing girl need advice on keeping text convo lively/intersting

    So Ive been texting this girl we've been seeing each other for a few weeks (main for of comunication was though text) and the first few days the texts were very " lively" full of lol's and things in relation to that and also long texts but a few days ago since we hooked up a bit her texts have been a little too short and no more lol's
    so my questoin is there a way for me to "recover" our text convo as well as make it fun again for me and her. and because her texts are so short how can i find something to reply back with?

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    Default Re: seeing girl need advice on keeping text convo lively/intersting

    Why are you texting her when you could be spending time with her? Or is this a LDR?
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    Default Re: seeing girl need advice on keeping text convo lively/intersting

    LDR?
    And Both our scheduals are kinda crazy atm and dont sync so I thought its better to text and try and maybe build some attraction than none at all

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    Default Re: seeing girl need advice on keeping text convo lively/intersting

    Long Distance Relationship. The thing is you don't have to. If you two hooked up she has already displayed interest and texting without purpose is a dlv.

    As it applies here, don't fix what's not broken instead of trying to make better what already works.
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    Default Re: seeing girl need advice on keeping text convo lively/intersting

    So did i just over analyse the situation?
    and im over reacting to the shorter texts

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    Default Re: seeing girl need advice on keeping text convo lively/intersting

    A little bit over analyzing, but mostly overreacting. Text less frequently.

    As it applies to Cat-String Theory: You dangle the string in front of her and she's interested, but once she gets ahold of it she quickly bores. You've created interest, but when you continue to text her after interest it's like wiggling the string millimeters from the cat's face. She knows she can have the string. The Game is no longer fun.

    So there are two problems here: 1) Attempting to build interest after interest has been acheived; thus boring her from the lack of escalation. 2) Overreacting due to a lack of being centered. The Law of State Transference tells us that because you aren't centered she won't be either. Center yourself. Focus. Don't overreact.

    Result: Less texting will cause her to chase once again with a feelng of insecurity. When she sees you secure, she will relax and you can continue to escalate.

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