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    KingBeau is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Replying to a goodnight message

    Her: I'm going to bed. Goodnight.

    This happened a few hours ago; she's a HB9. I chose not to reply.
    Was this a good idea? Not that i really give 2 shits now that it's done, but i was just curious.

    This is the first time I've let her get away first. (I'll usually end the conversation after a while, before she does ).

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    Default Re: Replying to a goodnight message

    I always say good night back. Generally I don't actually care who responds last or first. It's childish IMO and a waste of emotional energy. I say whatever I want and don't stress about it too much. If it's mean to be it's meant to be. I've never lost a girl because I texted her wrong or because I responded last.

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    Default Re: Replying to a goodnight message

    I agree. Putting too much focus on the details can distort your reality if pushed. Think of it as a photo. The pixels are important for making up the photo but by themselves are insignificant. So you have to look at the "big picture."

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    Default Re: Replying to a goodnight message

    Agree with them all. But also, if you are SO focused on the details, remember basic conditioning. Bad actions MUST be punished every time, and good actions should be rewarded to a certain degree. The more you know here, the more reward you give. Remember to calibrate tight when rewarding and not to punish too harsh/direct/deliberate. Some times, only a 1 sec twisted face, slightly turn away and talk to others after her comment is enough punishment.

    About the text thing, I'd reply, short, concise and secure.
    My English is probably not completely right and you might need an extra effort to figure out what I actually meant. Also I'm not a pro, but I keep practicing and learning almost every day.


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