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    triplenexus is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Need Help with a Hot Girl I just met at a party.

    Hello everyone, My name is Dee. I just met this chick which i will refer to as "Miami". Ok here is how everything went down.

    I'm semi at an employee meet and greet party and I notice a very hot chick just standing listening to her head phones. What attracts me to her at first was her great ass. At first I didn't say anything, the second time I walked by and saw her I tried to shoot my shot. I asked her what she was listening to, She replies "50cent". We had a genuine conversation about food, sports(shes a lebron james fan). I immediately down play lebron, She keeps semi upset but has a smile on her face. Sh goes on to tell me she can cook, so I asked her what she could cook well. She says she could cook anything. I seize this oppertunity to challenge her to cook off. I asked for her number and she gave it to me, with no hesitation. After she gives me her number she starts dancing next to me. I seize this other oppertunity and start dancing with her. I had a great time bumping and grinding with her and smacking her ass at the same time. I tried to end the conversation on a high because I couldn't seem to generate much more conversation in my head besides the obvious. So I said I had to find my friends I came her with and I would be back.
    (This is how we met)

    I feel like there was much more oppertunity in this window and I didn't seize it. So I am trying to text her into warming up into me. I'm trying to move higher up on her priority list so I could be the one she thinks about when the time is right.

    Here is our text history.

    ME: This is Dee from the party.(Me texting her so she could save my number.)

    ME: A few of my friends and I are going out to eat. What are your plans.(Party is about 30 minutes over at this time)

    Miami: Staying home I cant spend money right now.

    ME:I had a great time tonight Even though we had crappy music. Maybe next time we will have a black DJ. Are you cooking anything tonight (My roommate said I sound desperate when I said are you cooking tonight. Me personally, I thought I was just refrenceing a high point in the conversation that she seemed really into.)

    Miami: Maybe Idk

    (So at this point the show term message kinda wore on me, I was kinda out of good conversation at the moment so I decided to end it while I could before I said something bad)

    ME: Well have a good night, let me know when you want that cook off, your going down.

    Miami: In your dreams.



    I am taking opinions and options on what to do next. I'm kinda thinking about texting her tomorrow but also want to play the waiting game a little. I know there was a lot more I could have done at the party to kinda close the deal that night, with all the grinding that was going on. But who knows that is in the past now. I'm trying to capitalize on the Future, That is why I'm here

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    Default Re: Need Help with a Hot Girl I just met at a party.

    Did you ask if she had a BF when you talked to her at the party? You must think like james bond and gather intel. You perhaps should have waited longer to make contact and no disrespect but your totally being the puppy dog nice guy and have left it in her court saying 'let me know when you want a cook off'. It gives her the impression you want her to make the move when you should be. I would have waited two days and sent her 'I'm cooking tonight, come over' or 'I'm hungry, you said something about being able to cook anything or are you all talk'.

    To recover try respond 'I make dreams into reality, cook off tonight, my place 7pm or I will assume you can't really cook'. Something more defined. Be more direct and aggressive and write shorter confident texts. Also a cook off is kinda competitive, I'd be more trying to prove your cooking or get her to cook for you or surprise her with something completely fresh and different 'I got a spare ticket to a game or concert'. She sounds like an ice queen if you ask me. Go hard or go home.

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    Default Re: Need Help with a Hot Girl I just met at a party.

    I appreciate your honestly. I do play the nice guy role too many times. Most often I'm locked in the friends zone with out the key. I'm tired of this role. But the times when I do go hard. I am often too aggressive. I havn't found the thin line yet where I need to be walking. I do however love the I make dreams into reality text. I might have to use that one.

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    Default Re: Need Help with a Hot Girl I just met at a party.

    Try the dreams to reality text being more aggressive and if it doesn't work freeze her out for a week then try again with something social like 'some friends and I are going clubbing Saturday, excellent DJ, exotic drinks, hot bodies moving on the dancefloor, join us it will be fun' - something that if she refuses it doesn't matter to you because as far as she knows you will still be going clubbing and doing all the things you described regardless.

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    Default Re: Need Help with a Hot Girl I just met at a party.

    Any advice from any other community members. I'm looking for all kinds of suggestions.


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