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    Default What should I write next?

    I added a random Asian HB7 who was in my friend's friend list. She confirmed it and I here is the convo that ensued.

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    Me:
    Do I know you, or do you just add strangers so easily?

    Her:
    No, I don't add strangers so easily. You added me so I should be asking you that, hahaha.

    Me:
    LOL, you don't take this too seriously, good. I do add strangers, but only some of them. You did the right thing by adding me

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    what do you guys think?

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    Default Re: What should I write next?

    Tell me what part of Asia she is from and I can help you a whole lot more.

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    Default Re: What should I write next?

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Tell me what part of Asia she is from and I can help you a whole lot more.
    Thanks for your help.
    her last name is Kosim, Indonesian I believe? Anyway, what do you think of the convo so far?

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    Default Re: What should I write next?

    u shouldn't have written that u add strangers and there aren't any hook points in it
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: What should I write next?

    Yeah I agree with Xavier - you need hook points and don't be afraid to ask her some questions about herself. Move the conversation forward so you are not strangers. Strangers talking about being strangers is going to go nowhere fast. Asian women generally are not as uptight as western women IMO. Ask her where she is from and say how much you like the food from that area (that is if you do - if you don't know much about her homeland dishes get her around to your place to cook some for you )

    If you find out exactly where she is from and she can still speak her native language try send something to her using google translate. Recheck it before you send it to make sure it makes sense (flip the language toggle). She will likely be very touched by that effort.

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    Default Re: What should I write next?

    Then what could I have written to her response? Would it have been ok to compliment her?

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    Default Re: What should I write next?

    yes but compliment about something specific in the pic or if she has a big smile in the pic say something like what were u doing that made u so happy? and i'm with the dragon on this one find out where she is originally from it's easy just say u look indonesian she'll say yes or no i'm......
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    Default Re: What should I write next?

    Quote Originally Posted by liquid_fun21 View Post
    Then what could I have written to her response? Would it have been ok to compliment her?
    Adding her in the first place is a compliment. As far as you are concerned you don't know her so save the compliments until she reveals something interesting about herself 'I belly dance' 'I just cut my hair' 'I just got a boob job' 'I hiked everest last year' whatever it is...or get her to compliment you by adding value to yourself then compliment back. Try avoid it appearing like you are drooling over her pics all day

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    Default Re: What should I write next?

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    yes but compliment about something specific in the pic or if she has a big smile in the pic say something like what were u doing that made u so happy? and i'm with the dragon on this one find out where she is originally from it's easy just say u look indonesian she'll say yes or no i'm......
    Ah, that's a good opener. "You look _ _ _ _ _"

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    Default Re: What should I write next?

    Alright her next reply is back, she said:

    "Right thing...how so?"

    Ok guys help me out here what should I write?


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