Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Page 2 of 5 FirstFirst 12345 LastLast
Results 11 to 20 of 46
Like Tree1Likes

Thread: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

  1. #11
    BatMan's Avatar
    BatMan is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 31,552, Level: 100
    Level completed: 0%, Points required for next Level: 0
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social25000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Awards:
    Most PopularCommunity Award
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    2,151
    Points
    31,552
    Level
    100
    Thanks
    1
    Thanked 12 Times in 12 Posts
    Rep Power
    1389

    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    Its good that she tries to make up for it. Now you can use this in your favor and tell her you'll only go if she gets you a drink. Or have her do something else to make up for her flake. Just make sure it's doable and have a fun tone to it.

  2. #12
    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 15,299, Level: 79
    Level completed: 90%, Points required for next Level: 51
    Overall activity: 99.0%
    Achievements:
    Social10000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    1,032
    Points
    15,299
    Level
    79
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    675

    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    It all sounds positive - she's inviting you back out so you shouldn't have to worry too much. Let her chase you a bit for flaking. Maybe avoid saying cheesy stuff like 'it's the last number you'll ever need' and act responsively so your not always waiting. If she tries to flake again act more aggressively and insist she meets you. Genuine work and family commitments are the only excuse I will tolerate.

  3. #13
    BatMan's Avatar
    BatMan is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 31,552, Level: 100
    Level completed: 0%, Points required for next Level: 0
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social25000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Awards:
    Most PopularCommunity Award
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    2,151
    Points
    31,552
    Level
    100
    Thanks
    1
    Thanked 12 Times in 12 Posts
    Rep Power
    1389

    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    Off to a good start. Just make sure she makes it up to you by buying you a drink or something to increase compliance.

  4. #14
    triplenexus is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 147, Level: 2
    Level completed: 94%, Points required for next Level: 3
    Overall activity: 5.6%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    42
    Points
    147
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    12

    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    We didn't go out for drinks, I got home late last night around 10. I sat by the pool side with her friend and her. For about 45 minutes the friend was there. After the friend left she stayed. We talked for about 2 hours. I have noticed me and this girl have ALOT of things in common. Upbringing, Similar interest. I also flirted with her and added some Kino. I walked her to her room and left. I feel like I need to get her alone in Isolation to escalate things. Any comments/opinions guys?

    EDIT: Next time I have time with her I am going to bring up friends with benefits and try to seed the idea in her mind that we would peruse this. Any ideas on how I should go about it?

  5. #15
    BatMan's Avatar
    BatMan is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 31,552, Level: 100
    Level completed: 0%, Points required for next Level: 0
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social25000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Awards:
    Most PopularCommunity Award
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    2,151
    Points
    31,552
    Level
    100
    Thanks
    1
    Thanked 12 Times in 12 Posts
    Rep Power
    1389

    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    Very natural flow and that's how it should be. If you are both mutually open with your interest then you can relax alittle and focus on having fun. Still incorporate whatever teasing and comfort building you are using and just maintain momentum. Losing momentum is an overlooked concept that can potentially lose a woman. So when the opportunities start rolling in, make sure to take them.

  6. #16
    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 15,299, Level: 79
    Level completed: 90%, Points required for next Level: 51
    Overall activity: 99.0%
    Achievements:
    Social10000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    1,032
    Points
    15,299
    Level
    79
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    675

    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Losing momentum is an overlooked concept that can potentially lose a woman. So when the opportunities start rolling in, make sure to take them.
    100% agree

    You have talked enough, you're by the poolside late at night with her? Romantic setting bonus points! Kiss her. It's that simple. Who cares if there's a friend of hers hanging around, she will leave as soon as you two start getting intimate, unless the friends hanging around in case you don't move on your target and take her instead as a plan B? stick to plan A and next time try kiss her and escalate it beyond chats. Mexican by the pool? Shes a woman, be a man. Good luck

  7. #17
    triplenexus is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 147, Level: 2
    Level completed: 94%, Points required for next Level: 3
    Overall activity: 5.6%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    42
    Points
    147
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    12

    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    Could some one private message me some tips on this. Just got a message about how today her plans fell through and we both have the day off. She is trying to figure out what I'm doing

  8. #18
    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 15,299, Level: 79
    Level completed: 90%, Points required for next Level: 51
    Overall activity: 99.0%
    Achievements:
    Social10000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    1,032
    Points
    15,299
    Level
    79
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    675

    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    Both got a day off? You're spending the day with her! Say 'meet you at 7, here'. Don't yap on all day. Get her alone and do your thing later in the evening. Or take her somewhere interesting during the day if that's the schedule. Stay cool.

  9. #19
    triplenexus is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 147, Level: 2
    Level completed: 94%, Points required for next Level: 3
    Overall activity: 5.6%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    42
    Points
    147
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    12

    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    I just spent 2 hours talking with her last night.I'm just paranoid of being friendzoned the next meeting.
    I do however plan on either kissing or establishing a Friends with Benefits relationship next time we meet.
    I do have some tickets for an amusement park vip enterance

  10. #20
    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 15,299, Level: 79
    Level completed: 90%, Points required for next Level: 51
    Overall activity: 99.0%
    Achievements:
    Social10000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    1,032
    Points
    15,299
    Level
    79
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    675

    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    Quote Originally Posted by triplenexus View Post
    I just spent 2 hours talking with her last night.I'm just paranoid of being friendzoned the next meeting.
    I do however plan on either kissing or establishing a Friends with Benefits relationship next time we meet.
    Your not going to friendzone - you are going to make a physical move and decide the rest later or you will ride on. Look at what you just wrote, choose your inner plan not superficial phone calls. Hola!


Page 2 of 5 FirstFirst 12345 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. Picking up at swimming pool
    By flygregfly in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 07-19-2012, 08:42 PM
  2. I need help facebooking a girl!
    By BreakThrough in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 05-14-2012, 07:23 AM
  3. Facebooking Message Gone WRONG
    By Otto Ham in forum Field Reports
    Replies: 8
    Last Thread: 03-07-2012, 08:56 PM
  4. University pool opener
    By puaoneday in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 02-25-2012, 12:50 PM
  5. Los Angeles. I have a mansion and pool. 24
    By jadlman1 in forum Find a Local Wingman
    Replies: 6
    Last Thread: 12-03-2011, 09:12 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com