Try this Mindset....She is entering your world. She has no idea what to expect so you are her guide and you know she will have an awesome time. However if when she comes into your world and she tries to shake it up, you have to option to either tell her the rules of your world or she can leave. Filter through this mindset and your behavior should reflect it. It will seem as if the techniques just magically appear if your mindset is strong enough. So yes I agree, just tell her she's meeting you and you're going to do something fun together. Take the lead, that is alpha. Good luck.