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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    I think it's important to always have around 3 sexual relationships at a time. I am not talking about talking to women or how many phone numbers. I mean 3 women you have sex with on a regular basis. This helps to divide your attention and energy. To reduce the likelihood of flakes, takes place during the Comfort phase of Mystery Method. Also I think it's more than just comfort. It's also rapport. If you have good rapport with a woman not only will she NOT flake, but if she does (usually it's out of her hands) she will be happy to make it up to you. Rapport is simply "a sympathetic relationship." Try to reach this level with her before trying to make concrete plans again since she has already flaked just to go to Walmart instead of having an awesome time with you. If you have already made plans for Friday then cancel Thursday. I'm sure you haven't done that with her yet and this will throw her off alittle. Then work on building rapport.

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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    Here is a brief run down of what recently was said

    Me: Do you have a big work schedule on Friday?
    Her: Im almost sure i dont cause its my first day at the resort haha why?
    Me: Cause I'm taking you to Disney world, I won't take no for an answer.
    Her: Ha really? How so? Jajaja ok let me check my schedule are u working now?
    Me: i'm at work late. Are you sleeping early
    Her : I hope so! I have my lifeguard exam tomorrow morning till 8 to 5 =s
    Me: You + me = nothing but awesomeness
    Her: U r gonna get in trouble 4 texting at work! So who else is going to disney?
    Me: Just me and u. I can. Show u the secrets of magic kingdom
    Her: That last frase can be easily misunderstood! Haha i dont want my bf to get jealous! Haha what kind of secrets are we talking about?!


    Some one please tell me what am i doing wrong
    Should i use the bf destoryer technique?

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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    This is only my guess, but it seems you are conveying too much interest too soon. Sometimes you can't pick up where you left off and have to start close to the beginning. I actually didn't know she had the bf (or perhaps I forgot) and you mentioned friend zone but how long have you actually been friends? You may want to Freeze Out to recover from this.
    1. "I won't take no for an answer" I know people may have told you this, but I think it's better to CONVEY this in your behavior, not necessarily verbalize it to her. It conveys alot of interest and perhaps desperation.
    2. "You + me = nothing but awesomeness" Decent line, but sounds like it would work alot better in person than through a text. Plus you want to try and calibrate your IOI's with IOD's and that did not happen here. When you do that you can pretty much say anything to a girl. "I love you so much. Too bad your always bitchy"
    3. "That last frase can be easily misunderstood! Haha..." She is definitely willing to let you hit on her, but it seems like it's just feeding her ego and not really building attraction for YOU. She may just like the attention and you're doing the "dancing monkey" thing.
    I apologize if any of this was too harsh. I just got off of work lol.

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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    none of this was harsh to me. I have a brother who is like the complete opposite of me. He shoots hes shot with a woman and 89% of the time he makes it. He tells me most of the time within 2-3 days the woman is talking about sleeping with him. Yet he is the worst teacher in the world.

    Back on topic. I did know she had a boyfriend, I asked her friend as well as saw facebook photos. Since she is liking the attention I am giving her. Setting a date and flaking before hand and Letting her catch me with other female be a good idea? I think he would spark an emotion that she couldn't deny towards me and give a little chase.

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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    Yes that's good. Anything you can do that will have her reaching for you. Attraction is simply "a pull" Just be careful to not make ANY of it intentional. If she feels you are doing it on purpose she will resist. Look up Cat String Theory if you are not clear on what it is already. You want to push her away "Ugh you are so not my type" until she seems like shes going to give up completely "Ya know. We would be so good together" the back and forth will confuse her and stir her emotions and she will just HAVE to solve you and try to figure you out. People are naturally drawn to puzzles. So be her puzzle and never let her figure you out. If still not sure, just re-read you last convo you posted. It basically says she has you all figured out because of your interest and she can have you whenever she wants. The good thing is that you made yourself room to go the complete opposite way. You could try "Nevermind I found someone else to go to Disney with" or say "I'm in love with someone else" or some other wild thing that shows disinterest in her. And just keep going back and forth with your interest while doing BFDestroyers. As always, feel free to be skeptical since I am just one man with an opinion.

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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    the thing is. The boyfriend is in mexico in central america. And this girl I am trying to seduce is on an internship with me in florida along with thousands of other college students for the next couple months. So she can't be with him for a long time.

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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    Oh well then it should be easier Just read the article I sent you. And I will be happy to answer any more questions.

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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    What do i say to a woman who keeps asking me, " what am i doing?" So i lie and say im devising a diabolical plan to take over the world or do i say, i would me doing you if you let me

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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    Lol the second response I don't recommend saying....EVER. But try it a few times and once you get a pattern of responses im sure you'll learn from experience not to say that. The first response is ok but you can just relax and keep it light. You don't always have to say something creative or clever. Something simple like "Wondering why your curious about my life?" or " I didn't know it was any of your business". Just a thought and as always feel free to be skeptical.

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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    well the boyfriend isnt the issue, he was only brought up when i suggested a date with the both of us, maybe its too early or wavnt finished the comfort zone. The last few 2 or 3 days i have been trying not to communicate with her but she likes to text small talk. My first instint is not to reply but she has yet to be nonresponsive to any of my messages. Shoulf i grace with the same gratification and participate in the small talk?


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    Just had an unxpected encounter with her. While we were texting. I saw her before she saw me so i tried to pretend as if i didnt see her. I asked for a hug and it was only a half hug not a full chest vs breast match up. She was with her best friend which is my co worker, i decided to give the best friend around 90% of my attention in the conversation. This lead to her running to another friend to talk for a few minutes and scurrying back to get back in our conversation. I tried to get her to feel a different emotion but i dont think it worked as she.was smiling the whole time. I didnt flirt with her this encounter if that helps.
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