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Thread: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    I think it's important to have a strong intent. You want to sleep with her so focus on that. Interpret everything that happens between you and her as either an ioi or IOD. And calibrate accordingly. I don't think you need to rely on clever lines. Focus on the underlying tone or "frame" of the conversation. Participate in the small talk if you want but try and have an emotional conversation with her. Tell her you love her, then say you hate her. Tell her you miss her, then you want her to go away. Calibrate your IOIs with IODs and it will create tension from all your mixed signals. Have fun and play with it. End the conversation and then reinitiate later. This has largely to do with the attraction switch of "willingness to emote"

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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    So im at the point were i really want to do somthing major to see significate progress. The date that was planned on friday i totally forgot and forgot to cancel with her. Now this is a recent text from her.

    How is ur day so far? Haha i just notice yesterday was friday and we didnt go to magic kingdom!

    Now she is worrying me about what im doing tonite

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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    I just tried one of the BF destoryer techniques and it didn't work. I said this one

    You know what? It sounds like you guys are totally in love. I can totally tell that he's the PERFECT guy for you and you will ALWAYS be together. In fact, I bet he'll propose to you soon and you'll get married and have kids and live in a nice house with a white picket fence. And you know, I just couldn't live with myself if I ruined the rest of your life with him because he is your PERFECT BOYFRIEND."


    She said they will get married some day and he is her prince and her boyfriend knows about him and he is fine with it because we are "friends"


    I'm desperate her fellas. Help me out please. She is like a HB8 or HB9 and shes geeky

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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    It's usually better to use BFDestroyers when you notice she complains about him. And if the bf knows about you and isn't getting jealous about it, then you are in a pretty bad spot. I will try to help you alittle further, but you may want to think about taking a loss here. If a woman is happy with her bf and you want to sleep with her, what usually happens is the input/output becomes imbalanced. The man will put out all this energy to game her and she isn't giving much back. Eventually he will be no better than any other AFC who begs at her feet trying to sleep with her. Honestly you can't win them all. And if you can't win them, then just make them friends. Don't underestimate the power of a female friend. They introduce you to their gfs which makes you work half as much as a cold approach and sometimes, further down the line, you can eventually sleep with your friend if you still choose to. Her and the bf might break up or she gets mad at him. There are really good techniques out there to help you sleep with a woman you are in friend zone with. But be careful because the more you try to game her without results, the more you will value the idea of sleeping with her. Which means the game just backfired on you since this whole thing is about not trying to put her so much on a pedestal and knowing when to walk away.

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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    ^^AGREED

    one thing you have to remember too, is that seduction is not always an overnight thing. just stick in there, be a friend.. but always maintain some type of sexual Tension, there are some women ive had to work on for years, but finally ended up hooking up with them, circumstances change.. hang in there and roll with the punches, she'll give you credit as being a "real" person who sticks around no matter what...once shes single again.. nothing outweighs that.. and as batman said.. have her introduce you to her friends... make her your wingman!. goodluck man..

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    Default Re: Facebooking a Mexican girl I just met at the Pool.

    Hello,

    Get out of the friends zone.

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