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    HariSeldon is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Hi everyone, new member here. I'm looking for some advice. Had the following exchange with a girl and then she flaked on me. Any thoughts why? Any ideas how I should reignite the exchange?

    Thanks,
    Hari

    Hi HB7

    Your profile pics are kinda cute. Are you interesting too or just another pretty face?

    ME

    HB7:
    well i'm glad you like the pics...but there is more to me than my
    looks....I can't be in a bikini everyday


    ME:
    Like what? On a scale of Kim to Khloe, which Kardashian would you be and why?

    HB7:
    sorry I don't follow the kardashian's...not my thing.

    ME:
    Great answer You passed the Shes not a dumb blond test. So all your pictures are you at the beach. I'm guessing you are a longshore fisherman or lifeguard. Close?

    HB7:
    Thank God......I was afraid I might be a dumb blonde because I
    didn't even know who Khloe Kardashian is. I luv the beach, Im not a
    lifeguard but close, I worship the sun.

    ME:
    Sarcasm too. Not bad. Hmm. So you are a Druid or maybe own a tanning salon?

    HB7:
    Maybe both

    ME:
    Ok druid. if we hang out you bring the mistletoe, I'll bring the sunscreen. So where are we headed then?

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    Default Re: Feedback wanted on this exchange

    I'm not entirely sure where the flake is. How long ago was this conversation?

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    Default Re: Feedback wanted on this exchange

    too many questions. She wasn't asking anything in return. I would have dropped the convo and re-started at a later time.

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    HariSeldon is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Feedback wanted on this exchange

    The last exchange was about a week ago.

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    Default Re: Feedback wanted on this exchange

    Ah great point. I try to ask questions in my messages in order to give her a reason to answer back.

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    Default Re: Feedback wanted on this exchange

    Quote Originally Posted by HariSeldon View Post
    Ah great point. I try to ask questions in my messages in order to give her a reason to answer back.
    This is a bad habit that I do too. It quickly becomes an interview, and she feels obligated to respond if they aren't overly interesting questions. Conversations get pretty boring if they are this one-sided

    Damn I should make a list of all my bad habits

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    Default Re: Feedback wanted on this exchange

    Its difficult when the women isn't investing. You pretty much have to do all the talking even though you may not want to. This is what happens when you haven't built enough value or attraction and she's just not investing. There are some tricks though to avoid it sounding like an interview. Things like turning questions into statements is a good one. And asking OPEN ended questions. Ones that really get her to think instead of yes or no questions. Also create some intrigue. Ask her a weird question and don't tell her why your asking. To seem interesting you got to be interested. So don't shy away from asking questions. Just worry about HOW you're asking them.


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