Thought I'd post my findings about creating mystery to build attraction. I have found that if you can Number Close and get some comfort happening the next big hurdle is actually getting the girl to agree on a date. I find it's best to make the arrangements yourself but give her very little information about what you'll be doing. Say something like:
"hey I have something cool we can do Saturday"
She'll ask what it is but don't fold, maybe give her a suburb you'll be in or what to bring. She'll enjoy trying to guess and it gives you a lot to talk about, getting to know her better. Building excitement (from my experience) can go a long way to reduce flaking and increase comfort.
I'm also keen to know some of your ideas for "unusual and unique" date venues. Heres a few I like:
- bush walking
- bike riding
- roller bladeing
- ice cream parlor
Keen to hear your examples