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    Default Did I just ruin it with a girl I started texting?

    Well I started texting this girl last Wednesday. We were texting Wednesday Thursday and Friday. She initiated the Conversation on Thursday but not Wednesday and Friday. Thursday I asked her if she would want to go swim at the river with me and a few other friends and she said she would love that. Friday she never answered my last text message. Saturday and Sunday I gave it a rest, then Monday I texted her saying Hey pretty lady how is your memorial day going? I never got a response. I have classes starting with her tomorrow and she said she was going to make sure to sit by me Wednesday. I'm not sure if I have failed or what, she was so bubbly and flirty at first but now she hasn't even texted me.

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    Default Re: Did I just ruin it?

    Chill my friend. Women moods change with the wind. If she is in your class, you have an advantage. Talk to her in class. DO NOT SAY "Why didn't you text me?". Just don't even bring it up. Just let her know how fun the swim was, even exaggerate the story. Make up some BS on how your friend dove down and found a wallet with no ID, but had $50 in it, so you all did something fun with the money. Make her feel like she missed out on a great time.

    Research on "PUA Text GAME". There is so much info out there on texting that will keep a girl interested. Getting a number is great, but that is this first step on the journey.

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    Default Re: Did I just ruin it?

    Quote Originally Posted by easyflow View Post
    DO NOT SAY "Why didn't you text me?". Just don't even bring it up. Just let her know how fun the swim was, even exaggerate the story. Make up some BS on how your friend dove down and found a wallet with no ID, but had $50 in it, so you all did something fun with the money. Make her feel like she missed out on a great time.
    100% agree. The worst thing you can do is get all emotional or nervous about why she didn't text. This is why its always good to have a plan B girl in the pipeline to take your mind off things and never be afraid to Freeze Out girls and beat them at their own game.

    I never forget one time I asked out a girl I liked and she was umming and ahhing, flaked on me so I thought 'ok whatever' and asked another girl out that I knew liked me. Being on the date with plan B my mind was still on plan A to a degree so plan B worked really hard for my attention. I shagged her that night very easily. Next day we went out for brunch and by chance happened to bump into the other girl (plan A). Haha. Oh sh!t. She was not happy at all but would not stop texting me through the week accumulating in 'I need to see you to discuss this face to face'. I said 'discuss what? You didnt want to go out, you might flake again, come to my house if your serious'. She did and I farked her aswell that night very easily (although admittly I had to white lie about the extent of intimacy between the other girl and me). When it rains it pours. Keep em all wet.

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    Default Re: Did I just ruin it?

    UPDATE: Well thanks everybody for the input! She actually texted me first thing this morning Park by me! I have an umbrella! After school I asked her I'm said since I wasn't able to be in the same class as you and you couldn't find me at lunch I think we should meet up after school and get some Ice Cream. She responded saying I couldn't find you at lunch! And I would absolutely love to but I can't today! That's really sweet of you though. Can I get a rain check and we will do it soon? I told her sometime this week after school and to pick a day. She said she has to work after school for the next two days be we will soon. Does this sound good to you or is she blowing me off? I feel that she really does wan't to.

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    Default Re: Did I just ruin it?

    It sounds like she wants to, but I feel you need to be allusive, play hard to get. Was the conversation via text, or in person? If in person, clown around with her. Say something like "Maybe you should just have 1 scoop, then noticeably look at her ass, meaning that she is looking thick. Make sure she gets what you are saying, but then quickly say "i'm only kidding", and touch her arm. It's basic Kino, and begins to build trust. You get the ice cream date, cut it short, tell her you have some thing you have to do, but also ask her out for another date before you leave.

    Don't do a movie, you sit there for 2 hours and don't get to know her. Go bowling or something where you can continue to get to know her, and make fun of how bad she is at it. Make a bet, if she wins the game you have to do something, if you win the game she has to do something.

    If she has fun with you, she will want to see more of you.

    Keep us updated.

    After this, study up on some PUA Text game, and the "dance" will begin.

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    Default Re: Did I just ruin it?

    Alright thanks man and if any of you have Skype so I can show you my text messages that would be cool to help me get on the right track. My skype name is Kil4pinkphat also. I should be on around 9 Central time give or take 30 mins. I'll keep you posted for sure. Also my friend told me today that last week he asked her if me and her were talking because I asked her to go to the river. She said No at first but then was like Well.. Maybe but idk if it will go anywhere, this was a week ago and alot has changed since then and she seems way more flirty.

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    Default Re: Did I just ruin it?

    Little update: I sent this opener while she was at work and I said Hey Stop! She texted me back and said Hey what! I texted back saying Hey stop thinking baout me and smiling see ur doing it rite now : ) she text me back saying Oh (my name) : ) Idk if it worked or not haha not really a crazy response.

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    Default Re: Did I just ruin it?

    I used the exact same opener last night.

    ME"Stop it!"
    HER"Stop What?
    ME"Stop thinking of me with a smile on your face. See your doing.... it....right... now..."
    HER"(slap) (Slap)
    HER"That's me virtually slapping you back to reality"

    Us guys need to come up with some new openers, we are flooding the market with the same ones. LOL

    I thought her response was hilarious. She is giving thought to her response. We texted some more, and she started asking me my age, my height, I never told her, just avoided the questions, then cut the conversation short. I think she is interested in me. She initiated text once, and called me once. I have mentioned we should hang out this weekend, so far she has not said yes or no. But I do feel she is somewhat interested in me.

    I'm gonna Freeze Out until I hear from her. She knows I want to take her out on Friday (tomorrow). If she contacts me we will see where it goes.

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    Default Re: Did I just ruin it?

    Sorry if this is long guys I'm just not sure if I went about all this right.

    Last night she was at work and she is actually a cashier at walmart. I was going to go through her line and ask her what her plans were after work and if she wanted to do something. The line just kept filling and filling up so I couldn't ask her anything because I didn't have anything to buy! So i text her about an hour later and say I was trying to talk to you but the line was so long and people kept getting in it! I was gona ask you what time u got off and if you were doing anything after for a little bit after . She said Hahaha that's okay! Usually how it works right? Lol. But I would hang out but tonight didn't end to well. Gonna go home and cry. (When I went there I could tell something wasn't quite rite) I messaged her back saying What why?! Don't cry! I said C'mon tell me what is going on idk if I can help but i can try! She messaged back say ing Lol I wont cry. Just a rough night. Thank you though I messaged her saying alright you better not cry! It will all be better in the morning just get some good sleep She said Lol you're so sweet. Thank you and I will I said Ah thanks your pretty sweet yourself sometimes Goodnight if its omethign stupid dont let it get you down your way too awesome and pretty! I hope i didn't send this too late and wake you up. Ment to send it way earlier. She said lol your okay. Im a terrrrrible texter so i'll let it slide I expect this stuff to happen to me so I'm tough. I'll be okay goodnight. And thanks for being here for me.

    What do you guys think?? This is the 2nd time I have asked to hangout and she hasn't been able to I feel like she wants too but things just keep getting in the way but maybe she doesn't want to and is making excuses.

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    Default Re: Did I just ruin it?

    My first thought while reading your last post is friend zone. I suggest a Freeze Out. Don't text for a few days, like 3. If she texts you first, then respond, but not right away. When you do respond, keep your texts short and tell her you are busy. Always try and end the text convo first. leave her wanting more. Don't be the shoulder to cry on. If she says she is upset, let it be.

    Don't use text to have conversations. Use text to flirt. The whole point of texting is to get her on the phone. Be fun, be funny, make fun of her, tease her.

    When you do get her on the phone, have some funny and interesting things to say, give the impression that you are the fun guy that everyone wants to be around. Keep the phone convo short, like around 5 minutes. Tell her you have to get off the phone, leave the convo first. Mention that the other day you went with your friends bowling or something, but don't ask her out on the first phone call. But do ask what days she is free from work. This way you know when she might be available. When you do finally ask her out, (and I learned this from the forum) use imagery, like sunset, exotic lounge/bar with amazing views, etc. Girls like this stuff and it has worked for me.

    Just don't be the "nice" guy. If she is upset and you are there for her, you are in the friend zone my friend.


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