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    asmith99 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default how would you respond to her being busy

    So after realizing I had been showing a bit too much attention to this one girl I have seen a few times and known for about 3 weeks. I decided to Freeze Out for a week or so. Its been a week of no contact then I get a text from her saying "hows it going stranger"? I never reply right away but did half hour after with just your typical message "im good just been busy how about yourself" she replied with some message about "working out blah blah and how she has been really busy lately too".. so i responded with "hows your week looking like?" then it got a little weird she replied back saying "my week is actually really stacked lol, im free Monday morning"

    How should I respond to that one? Where do I go from here should I just ignore it and not reply?, I guess she was under the assumption I was gonna ask her to do something obviously I dont know. Should i re-initiate the freeze out and see if she contacts me again?

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    Default Re: how would you respond to her being busy

    Dont reinitiate the freeze. I've been in this exact situation before and using the freeze tactic in this stage never worked. Youre in some kind of salvage mode. I cant offer much more than this.

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    Default Re: how would you respond to her being busy

    Agree ^ I wouldn't Freeze Out. I think if your interested in her and you want to go out Monday with her you should capitalize on the opportunity. But, if it was me i wouldn't make it seem like your asking her directly or your giving into her request. You don't want her to think she can say "jump" and you say "how high?". I'd neg her a little bit and think of a clever indirect way of taking her out Monday

    Hope this helped somewhat - cheers

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    Default Re: how would you respond to her being busy

    Lol she just gave you a golden ticket to have an opportunity to meet with her and you're treating it like it's a trap. Just because she is your target doesn't mean she is your enemy. Women want the same thing as men do so you don't always have to worry about how many "cool" points you have. Just keep the momemtum going and if you sense any resistance, that's when you bring out the teasing, negs or any other IOD's like the freezeout.

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    Default Re: how would you respond to her being busy

    I wouldn't Freeze Out. Tease her. Send something like "Mondays are my bad hair day:-). I might be able to squeeze you into my day". See where it goes. If she pursues great. If she fizzles, test "Last Wednesday I had this amazing night, I'm heading there again". She will probably ask what you did, where you went. Don't tell her. Keep her interested. As long as the girl is interested, you don't have to rush the next date. If Monday doesn't work for you, then tough for her.

    I have just done a lot of research on "Text game". Shits amazing guys. work your text game. There are so many ways of answering, not answering, changing subject, bantering, not responding. I'm telling you, if your not using text game, your gonna miss opportunities.

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    Default Re: how would you respond to her being busy

    lil update:

    I never replied back to her last message. later in the evening I got a message from her asking what I was doing tmrw night after she got off and an invitation to go out with her and her friend which happens to be kinda a mutual friend who actually introduced us. I teased her about how its not next monday and got some huge ass message back basically with everything she has going on until then... work, family all this stuff.. I was kinda shocked and basically told her I didnt need to know all that.. and said I would prolly see her tmrw.

    I was thinking of bringing one of my friends along to distract the other one so I can get more close.

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    Default Re: how would you respond to her being busy

    Well played my friend. Sometimes NO response is better than any at all.

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    Default Re: how would you respond to her being busy

    what if the girl Freeze Out on you, do you just wait for her to text?

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    Default Re: how would you respond to her being busy

    If she said she's busy, then it's better to leave her no response. You should know, when it comes to women, it's all about chemistry and attraction. You need to send texts that will spark her emotion, to make her eager to spend time with you. If she already said she's busy and you still reply her, she'll see you as needy guy and it could turn off her feeling towards you.

    You need to know how to continue amplifying the attraction, leave her wanting more. There's a video called "Erotic Flirty Texter" that'll teach you how to do all those things. I've tried it and really surprised with the results!! I've got two dates after I texted a couple girls I hadn’t heard from in awhile!


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