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    Default Re: need some advice on what to write next...

    Hey rb26,

    I wouldn't text again. If she doesn't get back to you, her loss. You're the prize. Don't give this girl too much value there's a lot more out there.

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    Default Re: need some advice on what to write next...

    Just wait. NEVER text or call 2 times in 1 day when you get no response. Give it a day or two, you don't want to come across as needy.

    You are a busy guy, she needs to know that. Personally I think texting or calling on a weekend may not be the best move. First of all she is probably out with friends, pre-occupied, and if you text on a Friday/Saturday night, it may come across as you are at home with nothing to do. You want to give the impression that you are out having a killer time. A Sunday text may be a little better, or a Monday text.

    Google search PUA Text game there are many canned text message examples. Take your time reading them, and decide which one works best. At this point you are trying to get a response. Read up on text game, when to respond, if she asks you a straight out question, don't answer it, leave some mystery to it, just reply with some other random topic. She will eat it up. Also if you text her while she is at work, she may take a while to respond, don't send her another text, don't come across as needy. As a matter of fact, text her while your doing an activity, like washing your car, or cleaning the bathroom, this way you will be occupied and not sitting there staring at your phone waiting for a response.

    Use text to flirt and banter, to build trust. DO NOT use it to have regular conversations ie. Do you have any pets? = BORING

    You want to make her smile.

    I hope this helps.

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    Default Re: need some advice on what to write next...

    I sent another text..

    Me.. Hey ........ How are things? It must get quiet up your way��
    What's your skedj like over the next week?
    Maybe we can grab a bit or a movie somewhere..

    Quick reply from her...hey, haha I'm so so busy sorry!! Its my birthday toda
    So I'm going out �� woo hoo


    What do you thin guys? How can we play ball with this one?

    I want to send her one last text, what would be a good line to use? I don't want to sound needy..

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    Default Re: need some advice on what to write next...

    Quote Originally Posted by rb26 View Post
    I sent another text..

    Me.. Hey ........ How are things? It must get quiet up your way��
    What's your skedj like over the next week?
    Maybe we can grab a bit or a movie somewhere..

    Quick reply from her...hey, haha I'm so so busy sorry!! Its my birthday toda
    So I'm going out �� woo hoo


    What do you thin guys? How can we play ball with this one?

    I want to send her one last text, what would be a good line to use? I don't want to sound needy..
    Ok firstly if you want to write asking her out be WAY more direct and confident in your language...you don't want to be saying 'maybe grab a bite or a movie somewhere...' you need to be saying 'I would like to take you out to this great secret place I know that has rediculously delicious food, refreshing wine, a cool cuban band and views over the starry nightsky, Saturday'. Your unsure nervous vocabulary of 'what's YOUR schedule like', 'maybe', being undecided about what to do, 'movies (boring) or meal (good)' and location 'somewhere' (where is that??) are not going to raise any emotional interest in her whatsoever. You have come across worse than a needy guy, you have come across as a guy who doesn't know what he wants and sent out a nervous water pistol squirt. Drop an atomic bomb or surrender defeat. Busy saturday? ok how about monday? Busy then ok tuesday? OK then wednesday? Still busy? OK have a nice life bye. Women who are interested make room in their schedule. It's that simple. It's your schedule that's important anyway. That's why you always have a few girls in the pipline. Can't see her saturday? Well then you don't have to write anything to her because you are now writing to another girl who is available.

    Also try avoid ever thinking you know what a girls life is about when you dont know her well 'It must be quiet up your way'. Obviously from her last text this is completely nonsense as she stated she has been busy and is just about to party!! Woo hoo. She has lots to do and she is not doing it with you. It comes across as desperate. You need to have something even better going on.

    This is a girl who didn't invite you to her birthday?? I'd either ignore her message for a whole week and then write back 'I only just saw your message, I missed your birthday but happy birthday anyway, I went on vacation to Vegas for a few days with a bunch of friends, it was off the hook' Trump her one night party instead of missing it. Or be writing to her 'I'm not invited? I bought you a suprise present...oh well its ok I have another girl I will give it to' or 'I know it's your birthday, Im driving up your way right now to suprise you. I am going to kiss your whole body head to toe, make your heart pound with every sensual touch and make you feel like the most incredible birthday girl in the world'. That's what I would write - you've got nothing to loose. Of course you're not really coming up there but saying you are and what you are going to do will get her heart racing and is an emotionally charged scenario. And it's kind of sarcastic and playful at the same time once she realises you are joking.

    Mate honestly, waiting around for the right time to text or using a canned 'I just saw someone like you' lines is just clutching at straws and you know in your heart its going to be very difficult to come back from 'maybe...somewhere.. .' or sitting around waiting for her texts when she's out partying. You either have to let it go for a while or change your style completely and be a 'bad guy' to her. Shock her into an emotional response as I have suggested above. Never be angry with it and never be phased with what her schedule is doing. Be 100% confident in what you want but also know when to cut your losses.


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