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    Default need some advice on what to write next...

    ok, i picked up this waitress at a cafe last night, it was not that hard, she seemed interested. so i asked for her number and she gave it to me.

    on my third tex to her ive had no reply. she is quite hot and i would'nt mind meeting her again

    here is the conversation so far, tell me what you think my next move should be...


    ME....hi kylie its mike from the cafe before. this is your number right?
    8:18pm, that was half hour after i got the number

    HER.... hey,yes it is and its carly by the way haha
    10:46pm

    ME....fair enough hun. it was nice of you to pass your number to me. why did you give it to me?
    11:16pm

    HER...well it isn't realy omething i normally do, but i thought ill give you a chance why did you ask for my number?
    10:00am the next morning

    ME....your eyes made the first move! i was being considirate! its nice to meet you..
    10:53 am the next day


    thats all of it.

    where did i go wrong?
    how can i fix it?

    its 11:30 pm now, im not sure when or what to write back

    any hlep is greatly appreciated

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    Default Re: need some advice on what to write next...

    Hi rb26,

    Your last text was a bit harsh. Wait a few days then write:"Oh wow, just saw somebody that reminded me of you". Hopefully this will generate enough curiosity to prompt a reply.


    hope it works out
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    Default Re: need some advice on what to write next...

    You were still talking about the number. You already got the number, shes waiting to get to know you more or go on a date. That is the 'chance' she was talking about and you didn't need her to tell it to you. I would avoid using 'hun' or being indecisive about who's chasing who. Take command and tell her what you want - which is to meet her again in person. Texts can't change millions of years of evolution: women want a provider, the hunter, the man who can show off his skills and get her desirable food. Provide her an attractive offer to go out for a bite to eat or a drink and impress her about who you are.

    Write to her wishing her goodnight. That's all you can do right now. Tomorrow night if she hasn't written back. That's not being overly 'nice' but 'touching'.

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    Default Re: need some advice on what to write next...

    Getting her number is NOT picking her up. Getting her number is the one of the steps along the way.


    Getting her name wrong is GOLD!

    Don't ask why did you give it to me. Don't even say it was nice, it lowers your value, like you don't usually get girls numbers.

    Why di you ask for my number"
    Correct answer "I lost a bet LOL"

    The eyes line is too lovey dovey. Keep it fun, keep her guessing, keep her smiling.


    Girls want a bad boy, someone who will keep them guessing. Be a challenge.
    Give it a day or 2 and send an off the wall text. Don't send one "How is your day?" = BORING. Who cares? Don't use text to have a regular conversation ie "What is your favourite movie". Use text to flirt, banter, build trust, make her laugh. Keep the conversations short, always try and end the conversation. It's OK to leave her hanging, like if she asks you something, don't respond. Keep her guessing. Once trust is built, ask her what daysevenings she if free. Ask when a good time to call is. If you get her voicemail, don't leave a message. shoot a text " I called looks like your busy doing something, I'll leave you alone so you can do your thing." DONE. Let her make the move.

    Google PUA Text game, so much info out there.

    I hope this helps.

    EasyFlow

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    Default Re: need some advice on what to write next...

    Its the second nigh, I haven't sent another

    Should I go for it tonight?

    What are some (more) suggestion?

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    Default Re: need some advice on what to write next...

    Look up some off the wall texts as easyflow was suggesting, something not too crude but will make her laugh or simply wish her goodnight later in the evening. I seem to be able to get away with 'goodnight sweet dreams' without being soppy, maybe it taps into a broad variety of emotions and they generally can't help write back with the same affection...but its much better with someone you already know. I think if you haven't chatted much with this girl you need something more risky, adventurous, funny and exciting.

    I use the 'hope your still smiling, if not, think of me!' one a bit and get good responses. Or something like 'lets escape this place and go fly to Paris for a weekend'.

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    Default Re: need some advice on what to write next...

    Hey rb26,

    I don't agree with some of the advice here. The girl's flaked and you're gonna wish her good night?? That is a massive supplication.

    You need to come from a place of abundance.

    Wait until Saturday and then text with, "Hey, just saw somebody that reminded me of you". Hopefully this will generate enough curiosity to prompt a reply.

    hope it works out
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    Default Re: need some advice on what to write next...

    Quote Originally Posted by rs5096 View Post
    Hey rb26,

    I don't agree with some of the advice here. The girl's flaked and you're gonna wish her good night?? That is a massive supplication.

    You need to come from a place of abundance.

    Wait until Saturday and then text with, "Hey, just saw somebody that reminded me of you". Hopefully this will generate enough curiosity to prompt a reply.

    hope it works out
    rs5096

    i do agree with you. i did come on strong to early. hopefully that eager feeling will wear off her by then.

    i will shoot her a quiet text on saturday, should it be early or late you think?

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    Default Re: need some advice on what to write next...

    I don't think it will matter - do it mid-morning. Let me know how it goes.

    rs5096

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    Default Re: need some advice on what to write next...

    So I've text like you told me. That was a at 12 am, six hours later with no reply.
    Whats my next move? Do I just wait for now?
    What might I write nex? And when?


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