Hey guys. This is my first post here after bumping into this forum. Anyways I met this girl a few weeks ago and both of us are flutists and we share the same passion for music. So what could possibly go wrong when both people had practically same compatibility and common interests?
I asked her to help me out in a duet performance and she agreed. So we had a few rehearsals and in between we had a few lunch dates. During our practice I made crazy ass load of Kino touching, made her laugh and we had great time practicing.
Out of nowhere the organizers cancelled the performance due to schedule conflict and I informed her. Her reply was "So that means we don't have to play duets anymore." I was stumped, I thought she didn't mind if we continued to play for fun - so I went AFC and go "Um, no we had great fun, we shouldn't just stop there don't we?" so I asked whether we could play again in free time and she just replied depends on her schedule. When I bumped her in a mall few days later her body language seems to tell me to stay the fark away from her.
So I did the best damage control I can and not keeping in touch with her since then. Few things though, she's 19 haven't had a bf before and she's planning to go overseas in a few months. Did I came too hot because she didn't plan to have a relationship with a guy like me because she's planning to leave, or did I blew her off with a single AFC mistake? Any advice appreciated, thanks.