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    Default Did I blew her off with an AFC mistake, came too hot, or both?

    Hey guys. This is my first post here after bumping into this forum. Anyways I met this girl a few weeks ago and both of us are flutists and we share the same passion for music. So what could possibly go wrong when both people had practically same compatibility and common interests?

    I asked her to help me out in a duet performance and she agreed. So we had a few rehearsals and in between we had a few lunch dates. During our practice I made crazy ass load of Kino touching, made her laugh and we had great time practicing.

    Out of nowhere the organizers cancelled the performance due to schedule conflict and I informed her. Her reply was "So that means we don't have to play duets anymore." I was stumped, I thought she didn't mind if we continued to play for fun - so I went AFC and go "Um, no we had great fun, we shouldn't just stop there don't we?" so I asked whether we could play again in free time and she just replied depends on her schedule. When I bumped her in a mall few days later her body language seems to tell me to stay the fark away from her.

    So I did the best damage control I can and not keeping in touch with her since then. Few things though, she's 19 haven't had a bf before and she's planning to go overseas in a few months. Did I came too hot because she didn't plan to have a relationship with a guy like me because she's planning to leave, or did I blew her off with a single AFC mistake? Any advice appreciated, thanks.

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    Default Re: Did I blew her off with an AFC mistake, came too hot, or both?

    Maybe she just didn't like that duet. But mate don't ask her to play duets if you want to get into her pants, ask her out on a date, get her out to do something exciting, fun and different. She's going overseas soon, you think she will be out there looking for duet partners? She will be out looking for adventure and to blossom as a women. She's a woman first and a musician second. A duet is kind of a committed relationship and yes she very well may not be looking for anything long term before she goes away so don't position yourself as a duet partner, position yourself as the first leg of her trip or the rock star blowing into town for a week. Compatability of interests doesn't guarantee anything.

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    Default Re: Did I blew her off with an AFC mistake, came too hot, or both?

    I feel that the way she said that you two wouldnt be able to play together was a test. She wanted to see if youd chase her and you practically begged her to play with you. I feel if you were to be playful with her when she said it she would still be digging you.
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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Did I blew her off with an AFC mistake, came too hot, or both?

    I like your signature Rooster - I'm going to have to use that!

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    Default Re: Did I blew her off with an AFC mistake, came too hot, or both?

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    I like your signature Rooster - I'm going to have to use that!
    Yeah for sure, I found this quote to be very motivating.
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