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Thread: How to respond to a Flop

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    Default How to respond to a Flop

    So me and this HB8 were suppose to go to the Blue Jays game tomorrow at our first date kind of thing. I texted her today confirming when im gonna pick her up and stuff. Anyways she texted me back saying "ahh i would but i have to work at dads store tmrw afternoon now *crying face*. and I really need the money . Are you still coming out tn though?"

    Kind of rattled, seemed like a cool girl, but i think there's still hope.

    Just wondering how do i respond to a broad that cancels like this last minute? Don't want to seem rattled or protective but don't know if i should just be nonchalant and cool about it. Should i use conditioning and punish her a little for this? and if so how?

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    Default Re: How to respond to a Flop

    I should mention, tonight is a mutual friends birthday and if i decide to go to the club to celebrate with him, she's probably gonna be there and i'll see her tonight

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    Default Re: How to respond to a Flop

    Sometimes logistics are a pain and you really shouldn't hold it against her. Only if it becomes a pattern should you take action against it. It seems she feels really bad about not being able to go with you and even wants to see you tonight. Just go out to the party and you can play it cool once you see her. You can NEVER obolish flakes. It's an impractical idea. But I can tell you many men would rather have your kind of flake than the other kind. Hope this helps and good luck

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    Default Re: How to respond to a Flop

    I think she is still interested because she is still asking if she will see you tonight, so she most def. wants to hang out in my mind. I wish I had that kind of flake with my girl.

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    Default Re: How to respond to a Flop

    Ya if she flakes from a first date baseball game oh well, she sounds sincere enough. Plus for an HB8, u can say sometin like 'ah really? Ok ill try to take someone else then' plus u go to see her that nite. Punishing her more stealthy like, her wondering 'someone else?' As in another girl or a friend?
    Pretty good draw to leave hangin there.
    Keep texts simple and have fun when hangin out. If she flakes a lot u can give her some shit, but u know don't come off need or rattled as sum of u put it here.
    Hope it goes well


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