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  1. #1
    PitchWhite11 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Help on NClose on Dating Site

    OK so fellow brethren I need help closing or moving forward. I have been talking to this girl on a dating site for the past 4 days and our conversations are very interesting. I've been receiving a lot of IOIs and she's definitely and HB 10. We are still in the preliminary phases of talking but with the IOIs I've been receiving I need help on transitioning to the next step (I'm thinking phone number exchange). She lives in an adjacent state but its only about 55 minutes away, (35 mins in the mid point between us). How do I make the next move without coming across too forward or weird...


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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Help on NClose on Dating Site

    Don't ask for the number too soon or you'll come across as needy and try ask the number not long before you're going to ask her out so everything happens in an escalating sequence and you don't fizzle into a text buddy. Get your messages envisioning already meeting up and if she follows along with that you will get her number no problem. You could also say your not on your computer much at the moment and you need her number so you can text.

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    Default Re: Help on NClose on Dating Site

    I've been struggling with the Number Close too. Usually I languish too long in messages and it all just fizzles out. Eventually it feels forced and I run out of things to talk about or she gets bored and stops replying.

    So yeah, that's how you know if you've waited too long. If conversation feels like it's just being dragged out.

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    PitchWhite11 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Help on NClose on Dating Site

    Ah gotcha. That's the thing these conversations and messages are getting deeper and longer more frequent so I'm definitely taking them as IOIs. I guess I'll give it a few more days and kind of get an idea of when she's free to gauge when to ask for the number to in turn lead into meeting up. Thanks guys!
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    Default Re: Help on NClose on Dating Site

    Nothing hard, I suggest getting her number and texting. Keep it simple. Suggest a meetup after a few back and forth texts, something like coffee. "we've been chatting online for a while now and I've been getting good vibes from you. We should text, my number is 111 222 3333. Hit me up or send me your number if you'd like. yourname"


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