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  1. #11
    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: The fine line between persistent and needy

    It probably means she's net someone serious for the time being. Keep closing with new girls

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    Default Re: The fine line between persistent and needy

    Yeah I had a bunch of conversations open, but she was the one I was most interested in (NOT one-itis). Oh well, moving on.

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    Default Re: The fine line between persistent and needy

    Looks like the HB9 recreated. I reinitiated, stating that I enjoyed talking to her and was a little bummed when she deleted. Hopefully this surprises her a bit and makes her feel special. She's the sensitive romantic type, and these kinds of girls need to feel special and wanted.

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    chillout24 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: The fine line between persistent and needy

    Quote Originally Posted by Ronin View Post
    Looks like the HB9 recreated. I reinitiated, stating that I enjoyed talking to her and was a little bummed when she deleted. Hopefully this surprises her a bit and makes her feel special. She's the sensitive romantic type, and these kinds of girls need to feel special and wanted.
    Sorry dude that's not going to work with online dating. These girls already feel special and wanted because they have 500 guys a day messaging them. You need to stand out and really pique their interest. And it's not by telling them how bummed you are that they aren't talking to you. Just the game.

    If you want advice post the message thread and some experienced people will tell you where you went wrong.

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    Ronin is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: The fine line between persistent and needy

    Sorry, context matters. When she deleted without warning, I had been getting some decent IOIs and we were making progress. All good things. I don't remember exactly what we wrote back and forth. A couple weeks after she deleted, I removed the conversation from my inbox.

    The only reason I found her recreated profile was because it was in my Recent Visitors. She creeped me. Any thoughts as to why?

    With my message today I was hoping to continue that tone from where we left off. Here is what I wrote:

    A wild Cassandra appears! I gotta admit, I was a little bummed when you deleted your profile before, so suddenly. I liked talking to you. Glad you're back!
    What do you think her reaction will be?

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    Ronin is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: The fine line between persistent and needy

    I would like to report that my reinitiation was successful and I got the number after some crafty maneuvering and framing. Would anyone be interested in a play-by-play?

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    Default Re: The fine line between persistent and needy

    For me, what works is focusing on the girls I have momentum with after writing them. Momentum to me is answers that are not cookie cutter or one or two word answers to open ended questions. When I feel a girl is putting some effort into her responses, to me that indicates interest and thus I shoot for building momentum. If I see after 2-3 emails back and forth that responses are still short and without thought, I stop emailing the girl as she will either not accept a # close or be flaky. For example, if I write a girl on POF and she writes back right away, and her emails appear to have a bit of thought behind them, I write back right away. A lot of times, I can get a # close within 15-20 minutes of the first message. You need to find that fine line between getting the Number Close as quick as you can to her feeling comfortable enough to give you her #. For me, it's between 4-6 emails. It will take some trial and error to find your sweet spot. Then I initiate meeting up via text. Initiating meet ups via email hasn't worked that well for me. Meet up initiation via text has had a much higher rate of the meet ups actually occurring.

    Now that you have the #, initiate a meetup. Don't Fluff on texting, as the fluff talk has already occurred via the weeks of emailing. Be direct, ask her which part of town she's at (if it's a big city) and "you" figure out a time and a place to meet. Keep it simple, meet up for a drink, a coffee. If you hit it off, maybe venue change to treating her to dinner. Now that you have the #, it's now all about you being the man with the plan
    Hard work equals hard bodied sexy women in your life. Picking up women = putting in the time and effort go get good at it. Most naturals have put in this time and effort without it appearing as time and effort to them!

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    Default Re: The fine line between persistent and needy

    In the end, she gave me her number without me even asking. I just alluded to it. I am going to arrange a meet up this week.

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    Default Re: The fine line between persistent and needy

    Good to hear man! I hope it all goes well!


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