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    Default Did I do well with my first text session?

    I text a girl that emailed me her number. She is a HB8. I'm new to this but I'm pretty decent with girls. Keep in mind this girl Doesant know much about me at all. I know how she looks bc I seen her Facebook photos through a friend. I don't do Facebook. Not sure if this hurts or helps my game. She emailed me her number Friday night and I sent her a text Monday around noon. Here's how it went.

    Me: Hey stranger!
    Her: who's this?
    Me: Your new kick ass friend
    Her: lol ok
    Me: So does my new friend always give out her number this easy? Lol
    Her: No usually no one has it lol
    Me:Tell me she likes rock over rap and thinks Jersey shore is gay.
    Her: I like more rock then rap in Jersey is stupid but I watch it on occasion to get a get a laugh
    Me: Close enough lmao. What does my rocker friend look like?
    Her: 51 green eyes at the moment dark hair above my shoulders currently no tattoos I like them but I'm picky
    Me: Wow! Your the first person I know that has 51 eyes! Lol sounds cute. Any pics of my rocker friend with 51 eyes? Haha
    Her: Lmao you know what I ment
    Her: 5'1 with....

    Now I never met this chick before. She doesNt know what I look like or that I know what she looks like. I didn't reply after her last two txt bc I didn't know where to take it from there. My question is how do I get her to ask me questions? It feels like I was interviewing her which can't be good. I want to send her pics of me but waiting for her to ask. How do I get her more comfortable. Eventually I want to meet her when I get off. Any advice guys?

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    Default Re: Did I do well with my first text session?

    Your doing well so far considering she doesn't really know you or has seen you. Not every girl likes asking questions back (she simply may not know what to ask you) so try escalate it into more of a back and forth funny banter or ask questions or statements where she is likely to ask questions back, like 'I have an amazing surprise for you' or 'you'll never guess what I just saw!' or 'while I was riding to surf a wave today...blah blah'...her 'oh you surf?'. 'I like green eyes, people have said I have eyes like a particular gem' her 'which gem?' etc. You need to give out a few hooks for her to start being curious about you. You are a stranger so I wouldn't hesitate to just outright tell her a few snippits about your real life.

    You have a description going and thoughts on rock vs rap and television shows. When she described herself with 51 green eyes you could have used that to great advantage, describing yourself in a similar fantastical way. If you simulate describing yourself she may start to contemplate what you do really look like, or you could slip in something interesting that is actually real about you like 'I have 49 blue eyes, I lost two in the gym yesterday...wait I really do have piercing blue eyes...so I better make that 49 red eyes...working too hard'.

    You should simply ask for her photos if she doesn't know you have already seen them (otherwise you are a loser chump who writes to strangers you've never seen right? ) and then just send yours back in return. She sends hers and you say 'thanks, got them, here's mine, I lost another 47 eyes so I'm only down to two now, I look much better don't you think?' or whatever banter you continue with. You want to establish attraction then escalate it effortlessly towards a date and so keep it interesting by changing topics, avoiding always replying or replying too much and balance cocky hits with some light compliments so you don't scare her away...

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    Default Re: Did I do well with my first text session?

    Thanks for the advice. I havnt text her since and she hasn't text me. Thinking of sending another text today around 2pm. I race motorcycles so I was thinking of opening with "guess what I seen while leaving the track today?" I think it will make her wander what I seen and what kind of track I'm leaving. Maybe this will give her a hook point for her to ask questions or wander about me. Just have no clue what to say when she ask back what I seen?

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    Default Re: Did I do well with my first text session?

    Perfect. Go for the jugular and take her for a ride on your bike. 'I just tuned my motorbike - come for a ride and let the freedom of the wind flow through your mind - I promise I'll ride safe'. If she's too afraid or whatever tease her 'ah not an adventurous type huh'. Or 'well I'm going for a ride anyway - can I swing by and say hello to you?'. See if you asked her out now on a 'date' - it would likely be too early and come across as needy, but asking for a ride on a motorbike is a really adventurous call and doesn't matter if she says no (because your going anyway and she will only say no because of her own fear, not yours), it plants a seed in her mind and should not come across as needy. Motorbike riders are usually bad guys haha. And if she says no 'I dont know you well enough yet' revert to 'can I swing by and meet you then' which includes the bonus of time constraint if its not going well "well I gotta ride on, see you later" and you ride off into the sunset like Captain farking America from Easy Rider. If you text 'I was just at the track' thats good too but will only continue text banter and yes you will need something else to continue it. It's the safer bet and will still get her thinking of you riding a bike and possibly even herself if you ask the right things. 'Ever felt 1000cc between your legs?'. I think with ultra cool things like bikes, bands, yachts, movie films etc you can get away with being far more upfront. Assume she has a bunch of other guys interested and they are even offering to take her out to dinner or whatever...all good but you have the supreme advantage owning a bike - even if she never wants to ride it. Full on action stuff like motorbikes is risk taking and girls actually love that. Good genes take calculated risks and women want good genes.

    Definately text her something though, she hardly knows you so there is no reason she will randomly text you just yet.

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    Default Re: Did I do well with my first text session?

    Thats good.I thought of that but being she didn't know what I look like I didn't want to freak her out by asking her on a date or bike ride. But then again it's not like a date. I was thinking if I can get her to send me a pic today I can send her one back with me on my bike. Maybe that will get her going. Or I can do the tuning my bike thing but if she says yes i would have to make something up to push it until next week bc I'm at work and won't be home until thurs next week. What you think? Would it be better to just wait until I'm home or now? I figure she would maybe start qualifying herself being she email her number so easily and I put her on the spot when we text. But then again she Doesant have to bc I havnt build any attraction yet.

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    Default Re: Did I do well with my first text session?

    You definately want to build the attraction and the offer of going for a ride is actually semi-serious, its not really serious because its a ride with a stranger, so from your point of view it makes no difference whether she actually does ride with you. The point is not to actually take her for a ride (although it would be cool if she did say yes!) but asking such a bold question and positioning yourself as an alpha leading interesting man. You're a guy who will literally 'sweep her off her feet'. IMO it's totally different from asking a girl out to dinner, It's semi fantasy. If she said yes it wouldn't be fantasy but if she said no you reply 'I'm only kidding, C'mon I don't know you well enough yet to trust taking you on my bike! I'm just talking adventure, but we'll see in the future... if you could handle such a thing?'.

    But realistically hold the bike stuff for the time being until you get her photos and her yours. That has to be a priority. Just text her saying hello or whatever and ask for her photos. You don't need to say anything overly impressive because all you are doing is finding out for YOU whether she is worth persuing (even though you know she is) from photos. When you get her photos mail yours back, although I wouldn't emphasize a bike one, just include it as something random. You want to show yourself confidently smiling and casually elegant not hiding behind or showing off the bike. A shot that is genericly motorbiking would be better than you racing on a track - more fantasy, like a photo that shows you in the mirror with only a few hints of handle bars, tank and exotic scenery behind. Mystery. Drama. You may not want to show yourself as an extreme risk taker that could die on the track . It should be more about interesting photography and story telling or perhaps if you're bold - winning - on the podium getting a cup. Once she has seen your photos her interest will be far more aparent and then you can gauge how to use your bike riding and other talents into developing more attraction, chasing and seeing each other. But it has to be about you first and not the bike - the bike is the joker up your sleeve. If she does send her photos wait a little while before sending back yours or answering so she stresses a little bit about whether her photos were good enough or not. If you're busy use the photo exchange emails to bide some time and then hit it hard again when you know you can follow through with a meet up. If that all goes well you can relax into normal casual drinks/dinner date and do a ride as a subsequent date (unless she hates bikes).

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    Default Re: Did I do well with my first text session?

    Really great advice! Thanks man. How does this sound? I'll text her later this afternoon with " what kind of trouble is [her name] causing today? It may get her to open up with what she is doing then I can kind of feed off what ever she says then after a lil blah blah I can text something like " your kick ass friend is still wAiting for a photo" or " I need to make sure you look adventurous...can I get a pic to validate that? Then if she sends it I'll send 3 pics of me. One pic of me with a friend out having fun, another of just me being silly with a crazy/goofy hat being silly,the third pic is of me riding my 4yr old nephew on my bike in my neighborhood going slow so he's safe and having fun with him. He has my helmet on of course and I don't. That way she can see me on the bike and know its me.

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    Default Re: Did I do well with my first text session?

    Followed up with a text for photos. Teased her a bit with cock/funny text. We traded a few pics and now she is hooked! She send 2 text to every one of mines. She wants to meet up. Thanks for the advice!

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    Default Re: Did I do well with my first text session?

    damn, awesome text game guys! this is where i drop the ball...always! im super confident in person..but for some reason i cant do that with a text.. i feel creepy. anyways. good to read some dialogue thats working!

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    Default Re: Did I do well with my first text session?

    Quote Originally Posted by jn85 View Post
    Followed up with a text for photos. Teased her a bit with cock/funny text. We traded a few pics and now she is hooked! She send 2 text to every one of mines. She wants to meet up. Thanks for the advice!
    Good stuff, well done. Make sure you meet up fairly quickly and effortlessly.


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