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    Default Dating a woman with a history of cheating?

    So this is the dilemma. Guys meets a female bartender at a regular bar that he goes too to have some drinks. This woman is 21 btw. He is 28 and he is a teacher. He has his career, good money and goes to the bar on occasions. But the girl he met has a history of cheating on 4/5 of her serious boyfriends multiple times and is a compulsive liar (not all the time).

    ... she just got out of a relationship like 2 months ago. It ended because she went to spring break and cheated on her ex.

    But she's very pretty. She has an awesome funny and outgoing personality. She likes to have fun. She seems pretty cool. She's been seeing this teacher for about 3 to 4 weeks now. He doesn't know that she recently has hooked up with her ex a couple times because she still loves him. But she's starting to see it was a mistake.

    What's the advice for the 28 year old teacher if he starts seeing her more and more and could possibly want a relationship (he does not know any of this, besides that she had an ex that she doesn't talk to that much)?

    Lets her all, warning? past experiences? anything!

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    Default Re: Dating a woman with a history of cheating?

    Hey Wilson90,

    The advice for the 28 year old teacher is to not go there. Does he seriously want all this shit in his life? There are plenty of nice girls out there.

    Hope this helps
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    Default Re: Dating a woman with a history of cheating?

    Fling with no sting. Root her and boot her or stay well away before emotions cloud your judgement.

    In other words she's fancy free and likes using guys for her own insecurity. That gives you autonomy to fark her without repercussions, or you move on and focus on someone who will have loving sex with you. They create the game you play the game.

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    Default Re: Dating a woman with a history of cheating?

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Fling with no sting. Root her and boot her or stay well away before emotions cloud your judgement.

    In other words she's fancy free and likes using guys for her own insecurity. That gives you autonomy to fark her without repercussions, or you move on and focus on someone who will have loving sex with you. They create the game you play the game.

    ^^exactly, she just doesnt sound like she wants to really have a bf or anything..probably just has em to mask how scared she is of being alone. women like this seem to love the attention (usually the very pretty ones).

    my advice to said friend would be to casually try and take it down a knotch and keep her as an fbuddy... unless damage is to deep...then sever ties and move on.. cuz if shes not ready to commit, its not worth the effort to try and change her (especially after she's already cheated)

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    Default Re: Dating a woman with a history of cheating?

    I like what WhiteDragon said, if it can be a sex only relationship, just meet up and do the deed, then move on, go for it. As long as no money is spent or time is wasted. Other than that, it's a waste of time with that girl.


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