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    jmll89 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Keeping up attraction from distance

    I'm putting this question in the texting section because the girl I'm gaming prefers and responds best to texts. We've called and skyped a little, but for some reason she's most comfortable texting. This is the situation: we were at the same college, great chemistry, and she ended up spending the last two weeks before I graduated with me in my dorm room. Now since it's summer we're in different states (we might be meeting up/traveling together later, still trying to figure that out) I'm trying not to over-text, but I also don't want it to go cold. My problem is that she NEVER initiates texting. She always responds, sometimes with multiple long texts, and is often very flirty, but never starts. How should I handle this? I don't want to come across as needy because I'm always the one to text first.

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    jmll89 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Trying not to lose her

    Anybody? Any advice?

    My plan for right now is to not text so frequently (just a few times per week, that's it) and try to increase the number of calls/skypes. That way if/when I see her hopefully I've been able to maintain attraction.

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    Default Re: Keeping up attraction from distance

    its all good. dont sweat it. if she responds with multiple text, than that means she's into to you...so who cares if you initiate first. dont let it bug you, and keep doing what your doing.

    go with your plan. just DONT freeze her out, or she'll never text you and wonder why your not texting her...just minimize the conversations, and like you said dont text her so frequently.
    A man is but a product of his thoughts. What he thinks, he becomes -Mahatma Gandhi


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