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    Default Completely lost on what to text....

    Okay so here's the deal I have texted this girl once so far with no response just the generic "Hey this is so and so, just wanted to make sure you had my number, I was overjoyed I ran into you, etc." Now my question is what should I text her next? I have been reading a lot of these threads but still no good ideas. I have thought about every possible angle and every angle seems like a bad option.
    Here's the best I have so far, please help!

    First angle

    the direct (too needy)
    "Hey gingerbread,
    OMG you are so hot I can't wait
    to see you again! I am literally dying with anticipation,
    let's meet up now!"

    the humorous version (too desperate)
    "Hey statue dog!
    Why are you so stiff? OMG I have to fight with
    you forever just to get what I want. LOL, LOL."

    the boring version (too clingy)
    "Hey girl, what are you up to today?
    I want to see you really bad right now.
    Maybe we can hang out soon?"

    That's the best I can do. I can't come up with a text that's not needy, clingy, or desperate. Why am I so completely lost on sending a stupid text?

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    Default Re: Completely lost on what to text....

    Dont worry dude, i know how it feels.
    You should start simple and playful in my opinion. If you met her then open with some inside joke or pet name you gave her.
    In yor situation i would for example say:
    Me: stop
    Her:stop what
    Me: stop smilen and thinkin about me. See ur doin it right now

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    Default Re: Completely lost on what to text....

    "just wanted to make sure you had my number, I was overjoyed I ran into you" conveys a little too much interest. Just be cool don't put her value higher than yours, she should be overjoyed that you came into her life at all...frame it like that

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    Default Re: Completely lost on what to text....

    Don't send any of the texts you have laid out.

    They are kind of weak, no offence. I know how it goes when you are really into someone, you over think it. Then when you do send the text and wait and wait and wait for a response you get what I call "texters remorse". You start thinking "Why didn't I send the other text I was thinking of sending?"

    Has she responded to your first text? If not DO NOT TEXT her again, wait about 2-3 days.

    Google search PUA Text GAME, thee you will find many canned text openers. They are good to start the convo, but after that you need to be the PUA. If you think of something to text, and you mind is saying "No that is too much, then your probably onto something. Avoid using terms like retard, gay, or any racial slurs.

    Don't come across as needy. When she texts back take your time to reply. Ask "Who is this?". Just tease her and have banter, keep it short, always be the first to leave the convo. The whole point of text game is to build up trust, get her to look forward to getting a text from you. Text game is to build up to an actual phone call.

    I hope this helps. Keep us posted.

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    Default Re: Completely lost on what to text....

    I did get a response but I got a fake number from her and it was a mad wife. I don't know why I thought me and this girl had something. I mean I knew the chick from work saw her by pure destiny at the bar and suddenly she stiffs me and fronts me a fake number. Biggest shut down ever.

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    Default Re: Completely lost on what to text....

    Sounds like you think there isn't anything else to explore with this girl. If so then my advice is for next time. Say she was buying a smoothie when you met her at Jamba Juice, first text, "Sup, Jamba Momma. Betcha still cleaning the blueberry stains out your teeth from that Blue Monday.. Yum!!! " She's gonna know who you are because you being the PUA was teasing when you met her & she will respond wither LOL's yeah... yadda yadda yadda.. Whatever,the point is is relax the girl is human like you and like you just looking to have a wonderful experience. Focus on just having fun within the moment and the experience will be wonderful. Peace.

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    Default Re: Completely lost on what to text....

    Sounds like you think there isn't anything else to explore with this girl. If so then my advice is for next time. Say she was buying a smoothie when you met her at Jamba Juice, first text, "Sup, Jamba Momma. Betcha still cleaning the blueberry stains out your teeth from that Blue Monday.. Yum!!! " She's gonna know who you are because you being the PUA was teasing when you met her & she will respond wither LOL's yeah... yadda yadda yadda.. Whatever just have fun. Peace.


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