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    MrStatham is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What to answer if she asks who is this

    Hi guys,

    I just texted a old friend of mine. (my ex her best friend lol) I send her te text "aliens are about to abduct the hottest people on earth, dont worry your safe, just texting to say bye"

    She responded: "Who is this?"

    I returned: "If you guess right you get to buy me a drink.

    She returned: "not in the mood for this"

    How should I respond back?

    Time is a factor.

    Tnx in advance

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    MrStatham is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: What to answer if she asks who is this

    Update: So after her texting me "I am not in the mood for games" I texted back: "I thought you was a fighter and not that easy quiter, you dissapoint me"
    For about 15 min no response. Then she text me: "your that ex of my Best Friend"

    What should I do now??

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    Default Re: What to answer if she asks who is this

    are you the ex of the best friend?

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    MrStatham is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: What to answer if she asks who is this

    Yes I am. replied on the last message: which ex you mean? She replied you are annoying me (my name) leave me alone and move on; I replied: do not flatter yourself. because i am texting does not mean i want something. she now replied again: farewel

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: What to answer if she asks who is this

    Well you pretty much lost any chance with her now haha. What were you expecting would happen? You would have had far greater success if you just wrote the truth: 'hi this is ----- I used to go out with your friend, but I always wanted to talk to you, are you busy right now?'. There is a time and place for being funny cocky and it's not everytime. Keep moving forward. Your driving with your eyes in the rear view, concentrate on the road ahead.

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    MrStatham is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: What to answer if she asks who is this

    Yes I know. But to be frankly I do not really wanted to hook up with her or some kind. Actually I am kind of glad I did it like that. But you are right I messed up.

    The friend was like move on etc. She said I never thought you would be like this. Because I made the remark "which ex you mean" since she addressed me as "that ex" Thank God did not worked out between you 2 etc.

    I knew that my ex would read these messages. Better yet,I bet ya she was the one responding. Because I am not used to this kind of behaviour from her friend.

    My plan was to play a little mind game. When I said to her friend I thought you where different also goodbye and deleted her 10 min later my ex called. Yelling on the phone. Why you texting her etc. I said I talk to whom I, like you do not own exlusivity on a person/friendship. She continuied yelling and i said talk calm or I hang up. So I hung up.

    For me it is a win win situation more then a lose win situation. Why? I knew she was going to react. I knew she would be pissed. And I know she will be irritated the rest of the day. I maybe think she will contact me.

    Anyhow. Sitting her with a big smile. Sometimes i need to sabotage something in order for me to force myself letting go. No i feel free and have broken these shackels.


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