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    Columbus769 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Vague responses but feel like I'm getting somewhere. Help!

    So I met this HB8 at a bar and we hit it off. We went to the same uni and she kept mentioning how she wished she hung out more to meet people like me. We talked for like 3 hours and got her number + invite to a house warming party easily. Btw she is new to the city and I moved in a few days ago.

    At end of night I was going to a club but she couldn't come because she had work-

    I wanted to escalate things so our convo today consisted of this:

    Me: You missed out last night- let's get some food if you're free on your lunch break
    Her: Glad you had fun, I'm leaving work early today to visit my parents for the weekend, so not taking lunch. Maybe next week?
    Me: Will be busy during the days next week. I'll hit you up Tuesday night to get drinks. Sound good? Have fun back home.
    Her: I have plans Tuesday night already but I can just text you sometime next week
    Me: Ok- ill talk to you then


    I really am digging this chick and don't want to mess things up. Any help on what to do if I don't hear back or something? I was trying to be assertive with the Tuesday thing but it didn't pan out. Did I text ok she's really got me anxious

    Thanks people

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    Columbus769 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Vague responses but feel like I'm getting somewhere. Help!

    any help with this? It's now 'next week' so I don't know how to approach next step. Should I call or initiate a random text?

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Vague responses but feel like I'm getting somewhere. Help!

    You seem to be doing fine - sometimes schedules just don't match up and you have to be patient. There's no reason you can't call her up and chat on the phone if your still getting to know each other and talked well in person before. That should help develop a stronger attraction than random texts and you don't have to bring up meeting or next date potentials in the conversation. If you talk well, be respectful of her without being AFC she should even raise it herself.


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