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    Default She keeps bringing her best friend from work...

    Hey everybody,

    An episode from today. Lady i'm interested in invited me to those theatrical plays via text earlier in the day. I accepted because we were suppose to go out last week but i cancelled. Later on in the evening before the play started, she said twice on the phone that "we" were coming. I was like dammit... not me and her alone

    She came with her sister and her male friend (which was not a problem because they kept to themselves) but she keeps bringing her best friend from work and her husband. She did this last month at the movies. Her best friend and my interest would keep chatting away at times while me and the best friend husband would be quiet. Occasionally i would chat and make her laugh but her attention is skewed towards her best friend instead of me.

    I don't want to cause any problems between her and her best friend but how do i get her to think next time she invites me somewhere, "I want to spend my time alone with him" and leave her best friend out of the picture? She sees her at work all the time, everyday but come on!

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    Default Re: She keeps bringing her best friend from work...

    She lacks comfort around you.
    I've been there before, maby she feel unsafe and the possibility that it will become an awkward time with only you and her.. Try 2 cool off and let her take the initiave.. If not, then you can simply focus her friend instead, maby make it so you, and the 2 girl are sitting and laughing not them 2. In situation like that you should give her friend the most attention, but still don't get too attached to her friend. This will build attraction aswell as comfort. Soon ur girl will be comfort enough to only go out with you, instead of bringing the zoo with her

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    Default Re: She keeps bringing her best friend from work...

    Quote Originally Posted by Jookkeee View Post
    She lacks comfort around you.
    I've been there before, maby she feel unsafe and the possibility that it will become an awkward time with only you and her.. Try 2 cool off and let her take the initiave.. If not, then you can simply focus her friend instead, maby make it so you, and the 2 girl are sitting and laughing not them 2. In situation like that you should give her friend the most attention, but still don't get too attached to her friend. This will build attraction aswell as comfort. Soon ur girl will be comfort enough to only go out with you, instead of bringing the zoo with her
    Thanks Jookkeee, i will have to be cautious when talking to her friend as she is married and i don't want the husband getting thoughts. Her friend is really hot, especially her body. lol@zoo!

    She has comfort in me a lot because there were times we would go out together alone but the difference is, we never plan it. It would happen within and hr or two so bringing the zoo along would be short notice. If it was planned hours to days ahead there is the risk. Shud i emphasize but don't come across needy next time saying "Tonight, there is a movie or play at blah blah blah and i would like YOU to come. WE will have a great time together."? (eliminating other people coming along)

    Maybe i should take the lead a bit more? i do most of the planning? Because we both plan and lead each other 50-50 which is a vast improvement because back in the day, it was like about 20-80 because i didn't know better until now. Should it be like 80-20 or 90-10 since us men are suppose to take the lead? I still want to giver her a voice in decisions to show that i value her opinions, especially since she is a "Realist" (pandora's box Definition)

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    Default Re: She keeps bringing her best friend from work...

    Yeah be more interested in the friend. Even if you don't hit on her, the mere act of giving her attention will create jealousy in you're target.

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    Default Re: She keeps bringing her best friend from work...

    Quote Originally Posted by Siedways View Post
    Yeah be more interested in the friend. Even if you don't hit on her, the mere act of giving her attention will create jealousy in you're target.
    Thank you Siedways! Have to learn how to make a woman jealous carefully. Don't want to over do it.


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