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    TheKid is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I Like Her - But It's Summer Break!

    So here's the deal:
    I met this girl (we are both 20 in college) about two weeks ago, and we really hit it off as friends at first. I asked her out, and she said yes (but "as friends"). We went out to eat twice, and it went extremely well. She thinks im cool, and I also think that she is physically attracted to me. Well that was all in the past two weeks, and now it's summer and we've moved away. We'll both be back in the fall, but I like this girl a lot, and I want to take it to the next level. Would it hurt me if I told her that I liked her over text? If so, What's a good way to tell her? The only thing is - I don't know if she "Likes" me in a romantic way.

    or should I just keep up contact over the summer and then go for it face-to-face when i see her in the fall?

    Thanks for reading!

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    Default Re: I Like Her - But It's Summer Break!

    Never tell a girl you like her. It will end everything that you worked so hard for. The entire time she has been seeking your validation, and by verbalizing your interest flat out...well, you just ended the game.

    She knows you like her, why do you have to tell her?

    And not over text. Especially not over text.
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    TheKid is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I Like Her - But It's Summer Break!

    Thanks for the reply -
    So, should I never tell her that I like her? I definitely wont do it over text now hah, but how am I going to take it to the next level in the Fall then?

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    Default Re: I Like Her - But It's Summer Break!

    Keep a little contact over the summer so she has you on the mind from time to time. Just keep it casual. When fall comes around, take her out on a fun adventure. Make sure you check for ioi's, sexually escalate, and check her compliance. This will give you a better idea of how she feels about you.

    I agree with Mr. OT. Don't tell her you like her. It will eliminate the chase, making her bored and most likely ending your chances.

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    Default Re: I Like Her - But It's Summer Break!

    You can tell her you like her! But Not in a "I like, I want you way" Mention things you LIKE about HER, not like "I like you a lot" If u want her, mention the things you Like the most about her, something unique she never heard before!

    If u go cold for the entire summer..I'm 95% sure you lost her, and have to start over again, and again the risk that she met someone else, What I understood, you're still just a fling, so that means she still can date other guys..You really want to gamble on this?
    Summerbreak is a good thing be creative..Find your own way, it will never be "the right way" its always a different path for everyperson, PUA guides you to your own way..
    Naturals, who is born in gods favor and are perfect with women, if you copy them, you think you will succeed as them too? nah..


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