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    CriticalRap is offline PUA in Training
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    Question Is she shit testing me?

    Basically I'm trying to get with a girl I work with. Not just a lay, but a relationship. We've spent a lot of time together, recently we watched a movie together and she came back to mine after, she left at 3 in the morning (Nothing happened). Also after a night out I went back to hers and stayed there till 5am (again, nothing happened just talked).

    She said to me awhile ago that she would never date someone from work, and after the night out she said it again. Yet she shows obvious signs of attraction towards me.
    I don't want to make a move in case she isn't interested and it makes things awkward at work.

    Any advice on weather she's just a tease, or shit testing me and playing hard to get?

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    Default Re: Is she sh1t testing me?

    If a girl is willing to come back to your place or you to hers she is generally open to the idea of sex with you. Her feelings about work relationships is just insecurity. Many successful couples meet through work, or work together and it won't be a problem if you can manage that process. It may be embarrassing for her (not necessarily about you), she may have concerns about problems down the line if it doesn't work out. You can't keep talking, you have to make a stronger physical move and steer beyond the Mindset of being a co-worker but a lover. If you make a move and she brings it up again tell her it's nonsense and she is far more important than work to you or that it's not a constraint you have met through work but a fateful opportunity.

    When i have dated someone from work ive always been a bit slower and naturally more 'respectful' but in the end i just had to make that bold physical move and live for the moment instead of worrying about work and the future. Good luck

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    CriticalRap is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Is she shit testing me?

    I can see why you're level 100. Thanks for the advice bro, next time I'm going for it. Gotta take the leap!

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    Smile Re: Is she sh1t testing me?

    Thanks for your advice, things have been going pretty well.
    We've watched a few films and cuddled and kissed a bit. It's clear she's attracted to me.

    The other day I met some of her friends and I kinda went into my shell a bit, I can be kinda shy around a group of new people. Thing is I think she may be starting to think that shy me is the way I am, and that's bad because I'm quite, not the guy she liked at all. I want to wait till I see her at work to try talking to her but she leaves on Sunday for 3 months. Should I try to initiate again, or leave it till she gets back after the 3 months?

    I was also thinking about leaving a video of an inside joke on her facebook wall or something?

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    Default Re: Is she shit testing me?

    Women act on their emotions and not what they say...

    I'm quiet like that at times too man. I like reading Virgil's guide before going out. Puts me in right frame of mind. Don't ever feel like you have to talk a lot. Just make sure you practice alpha behavior. If you do this you will get labeled as 'mysterious'. At least that's what I hear from a ton of girls I date.

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...html#post32252


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