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    illuminations is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Have I been put in the friendzone?

    Hi guys have a little problem I was hoping you may be able to help.

    So, I've been talking online to a girl a few days and she just told me that she had a date last night. She didn't go into any real details apart from that it was her first date in a long time and that she was really nervous. I've been getting stacks of ioi's (e.g, her messages are always flirty, she responds quickly, and there are lots of questions which implies she wants to keep the interaction going). Her mentioning the date was abit of a curve ball tho, weren't sure wether it was letting me know I had competition and I need to up my game (in fairness I'm slower to respond and use push/pull alot) or alternatively it could be that she sees me as a friend. How do I respond to avoid being put in the friendzone? What would an alpha do?

    Cheers guys

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    Default Re: Have I been put in the friendzone?

    I wouldn't necessarily say you've been put in the friend zone. It's not unlikely that she's messaging a few people at once (like most people who use online dating) and going on dates with some of them. It's part of the selection process.

    Don't give up man, if she's still talking to you and still showing interest, that means she hasn't "decided" on someone else. Time to step up the game though. If you know she's already seeing dudes IRL, you had better get yourself out there before you get left behind. Ask her out.

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    illuminations is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Have I been put in the friendzone?

    Thank you, Ronin. I know i need to step it up, just not sure how,

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    Default Re: Have I been put in the friendzone?

    Do you think it's possible she mentioned her date to challenge you? Sometimes girls get impatient and send signals to "hurry it up already". You know the type, the kind of girl who never makes the first move

    I really think time is of the essence here. If your sexual Tension with her fizzles out, there will be a bunch of guys waiting in the wings to fill the void. Do you have any hooks you can exploit? Common interests, something you talked about before?

    Or you could have something on the go and invite her along, instead of a typical "date". Depends on her comfort level.

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    Default Re: Have I been put in the friendzone?

    Ronin you legend!!!

    So I stepped up, used a hook- she talked about always wanting to go to japan in an earlier exchange, so I suggested we go make our own little Tokyo at a cool sushi bar I know and she accepted, excitedly, within seconds.

    Thank you so much!

    Really couldn't have plucked up courage without that extra push.

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    Default Re: Have I been put in the friendzone?

    YES. Atta boy, well done. Good line.

    Great to hear. Glad I could help.


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