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    serialfx is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What to say next? - i have the option

    Hey guys,

    So i met this HB9 (waitress) at a bar for my friends birthday. We were only there pre-drinking before hitting up the strip and i got to chat with her briefly before leaving. I asked where her if she had a boyfriend (i know a bad idea) but she surprisingly didn't. Her response was "I work too often, so guys always complain they never get to see me". I told her they are morons or something along those lines. This was before we left and before we did i asked her for her number. I told her "I'll text you so you have my number winking" or something like that.

    Anyways. This is how the texts have gone so far.

    (Me) Friday 12:01 AM "Hey this is "name". text me later cutie"

    i got no response so later the next day i sent

    (Me) Saturday 5:22 PM " What's going on "name"?"

    (HB9) Sunday 3:22AM "Sorry I was working all night again "

    So she is definitely interested by responding. It's now Monday morning almost and I can go either way with this. I've noticed I've been failing when it comes to the texting game so I've been doing some research. Any ideas what to say next?

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    Default Re: What to say next? - i have the option

    You may need a lot more than what line to add next...

    I would go through the 'how to text a girl' section and READ UP....there is some good stuff there and you'll find out texting is your best friend!

    your script sounds like exactly what the last 100 guys did when they came up to her working....and then same script when they texted her...

    i wouldn't have called her 'cutie'

    "what's going on?" is kinda plain.....you're letting her start the conversation...you need to start it....

    read up and try again! i got faith in ya brother!

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    serialfx is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: What to say next? - i have the option

    My charm did play a factor, and i can't remember the whole conversation i was a little drunk, more was definitely said but yea haha. I've been doing pua for some time but my texting game is absolutely horrible! I have a few things in mind for what i want to text next. A general "line" would help but thank you =). Will keep you updated.

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: What to say next? - i have the option

    Ok - 1 bar girls are notoriously hard because they work long hard shifts and cannot escape that. It makes them very difficult to see unless you're some rich guy that can buy her off her feet or someone that can have an edge on all the other customers that talk to her. 2 - there is no two.

    Your best bet is to get to know her better at the bar. Go back either with friends or better still when it's quiet, by yourself with a laptop ('my wifi's not working at home - hey check our this picture of me doing a helicopter jump skiing in chamonix'), go when she's working but it's not busy, and get to know her beyond being a customer. Bar girls flirt to make money and you have to get her emotionally involved beyond her work place. She might yap on about how much she likes her job but the reality is most bar girls would truly rather be doing something else. Paint her the imagery of 'something else'. And don't be afraid to be a bit negative or nonchalant. Most guys at the bar will flirt with harmless infactuation or overly cocky drunkenness. Look for the gaps.

    There are other factors to be considered: what is the managements policy on flirtation? (bar owners know the deal). How often does she likely get asked out? What are her repercussions for dating a 'customer'. How can flirtation benefit her job? What 'rumours' surround this establishment and how does this affect girls attitudes towards dating a customer? I.e. A bar girl may not be willing to date because it potentially sets a precedent if people find out about it.


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