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    Default Need help! Text before first date

    I met this girl online (she messeged me) and we have not met as of yet. She gave me her number (without me asking) after a few messages. When I innitiated text she quickly started asking me what my plans were for the day which prompted me to set up a quick meet between us. I originally planned to make it a quick drink to keep it simple. She then brought up some festival that was going on in the city and being the easy going guy I am, I suggested we check it out.

    This is how the text went on from here:

    her: ok! does that interest you or would you rather just go out for drinks?

    me: I think it would be cool. Lets check it out!

    her: ok, I'm about to leave soon (she was 40 mins away visiting friend in small town), we could check it out and grab a drink after.

    Me: Sounds good! Meet around 8?

    her:yes that sounds good

    her: Sorry **** i'll have to cancel to tonight (an hour after)

    me: aw what came up? we can do something during the week no worries.

    her: perfect, i forgot it was my friends birthday lol... what a terrible friend I am eh lol

    me: Terrible friend! lol Have a good time tonight

    her: You too!

    me: (terrible mistake) keep me posted on how you do in the volleyball tounament tomorrow!


    No response yet and its been about a day. I understand we haven't met yet so flaking is probable. But since this girl initiated most of the contact what should I respond next to reel her back in?
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    Default Re: Need help! Text before first date

    You should have asked her to make it up to you. Don't give them a free pass, it usually kills the attraction.

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    Default Re: Need help! Text before first date

    I pretty much thought of that after I replied. What would be a good response? I was thinking to change to a random thread that would be interesting.
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    Default Re: Need help! Text before first date

    Quote Originally Posted by Bazz View Post
    I pretty much thought of that after I replied. What would be a good response? I was thinking to change to a random thread that would be interesting.
    You should have straight up told her that she has to make it up to you.

    Then you should have acted cool, and told her you were going out with a girl friend.

    jealousy is a huge turn on, women are very territorial.


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