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    Default Is this rejection or is she playing hard to get?

    Ok so there is this HB7 I have been talking to. Its been kind of hard to tell if she's into me, but we were texting yesterday and she said a few things that makes me think she's into me but wants me to make a bolder first move. The conversation is below, it was a random text after Freezing Her Out for 4-5 days

    Me: Hey, can you keep a secret?

    Her: Yeah. Should I be scared.

    Me: I think there's a vampire in my house...Wanna help me kill him?

    her: Yeah sure.

    Me: I dont know if you can handle it...

    Her: Grow a pair and kick ass

    Me: I have a pair. im a lover not a fighter

    Her: Right, right! I bet.

    Me: Im always right

    Her: Haha, yeah right!

    Me: Why do you doubt me?

    Her: Idk. I'm just mean like dat.

    Me: I guess so.

    Her: When will you be in town?

    Me: Im in town right now?

    (I live 2 hours away for college)

    Her: Df? Well one of these days we need to hang. Did you go to my grad?

    Me: Lets hang right now.

    Her: I'm already hangin with people.

    Me: Me too lol how bout you bring your friends and ill bring my friends, then we can be friends...

    Her: Right now we are all on a drive. :/

    Me: Ight well were gunna hang soon.

    Her: Okay. Well you'll see my ass a lot in Chico, so beware.

    (I live in Chico, and she is moving 2 blocks away from me here)

    Me: I'm always down for a challenge

    (2 hours later)

    Her: Be prepared to lose

    Me: What exactly am I losing?

    Her: Haha, idk. I forgot what we were talking about.

    Me: Hanging out in chico. lol you have a bad memory

    Her: Oh shit, sorry I suck at life

    Me: Haha no one sucks at life, we just cant all be winning

    Her; I didn't mean it like that. And that is a nice saying. I'm going to get a tattoo of that, okay? haha.

    Me: Haha only if you quote me

    Her: Haha, okay. I'll say this weird guy said that, happy?

    Me: Not really. I dont want my quote on someone as evil as you.

    Her: :O wow you're so nice.

    Me; Haha I know, they say Im too nice sometimes.

    Her; -_- I bet

    Me: Its a proven fact

    Her: I dont see if though...

    (2 hours later)
    Me: What are you trying to say?

    By this time it was 2 am so she didnt write back lol. But any thoughts? Advice?

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    Default Re: Is this rejection or is she playing hard to get?

    I have no idea, what your relationship has been like in the past, but to me it sounds like you guys are just good friends and nothing else. But if you dont want to be her friend then their are some tricks to sling shot you into a relationship. Its up to you thoa, she sounds pretty witty. Most girls are dull as fark and she just rolled with the punches.
    "I've never seen anyone pull as quickly or as efficiently as you"
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    Default Re: Is this rejection or is she playing hard to get?

    All sounds good - she has raised hanging out and seeing her so she seems definitely interested, just watch the schedules and keep building attraction rather than endlessly competing via texts (or being reactionary) or sliding into the friendzone. Don't be too desperate to lock down the 'hang out' date. She seems more sarcastic than really being tough or hard to get. Think you'll be ok but need to manage timing so you don't keep asking her out when she's busy.

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    Default Re: Is this rejection or is she playing hard to get?

    We definately aren't good friends. We've talked in real life maybe 3 times? lol.
    I got her number off facebook maybe 2 weeks ago, this is our 4th or 5th conversation.
    Shes so sarcastic I honestly can't tell when she's being serious. Idk what to do.

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    Default Re: Is this rejection or is she playing hard to get?

    Seems like the convo is good. My suggestion would be to slow down on jumping into the hang out time. After a back and forth trying to figure it out it starts to sound like " Are you free Monday, how about Tuesday, Wednesday then...etc." and you basically just told her that you are free the entire week. Next time let her know what fun place you are going and invite her to come along. If she doesn't then she knows you will still have fun without her. But back to the convo I think you are doing well and it's about that time to escalate the conversation. Just get a few more IOIs from her then you want to cut down on any ballbusting behavior alittle bit. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Is this rejection or is she playing hard to get?

    I would have ended the text message thread about half way into it. Also, the "lets hang out right now" was fail I believe..jumped the gun on that.

    Put her on ICE for a few days and re-initiate. Next time, go for the meet up within 5 messages...something social going on.

    Keep up the good work.


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