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    frostedglass is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Texting cocktail waitress, casually mentions "boyfriend" - how to proceed?

    Context: Chatted with an HB10 cocktail waitress in an L.A. hotel lounge over two nights that I was in town on business from San Francisco. She started talking to me about her dad and brother, where she's from, interested in what I do for a living, what she's doing with her life, etc. I felt like she was invested and attracted, and it felt like a first date. Her boss actually called her out on trying to pick up a guy while on the job, in the middle of our conversation. It was a good time to end the conversation and ask for her number, which she gave me.

    I texted her the next afternoon and it continued over a few hours. Word for word:

    Me: Hey [HB10], it's [me]. It was really nice meeting you this weekend. I hope you didn't get in trouble for chatting with me! Take care, [me].

    Her: Hey [me]! Nice to meet you!! Oky saving your number now and we def should grab coffee and talk more about your industry . I know my brother and you would get along great! Enjoy the rest of your evening!

    Me: Back in SF now, just unwinding from the busy weekend. And I'd love to go out for coffee next time I'm in town. Hopefully soon! Working tonight?

    Her: No just hitting the gym with my bf! You know, pumping iron

    Me: Pumping iron, getting ripped? lol. Didn't take you for the weightlifting type! I would have guessed yoga + running.

    That was the first time she ever mentioned a boyfriend. Haven't gotten a response yet. But in general, is this a Sh1t Test? Do I completely ignore the fact that she mentioned a boyfriend or do I commit to the Boyfriend Destroyer Technnique? How do I proceed? Any feedback is appreciated.

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Texting cocktail waitress, casually mentions "boyfriend" - how to proce

    Definitely worth a shot as she suggested catching up however she mentioned something about her brother so she may be just networking? Just get to know her better and you'll find out soon enough how close she is to her BF!

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Texting cocktail waitress, casually mentions "boyfriend" - how to proce

    Definitely worth a shot as she suggested catching up however she mentioned something about her brother so she may be just networking? Just get to know her better and you'll find out soon enough how close she is to her BF!

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    Default Re: Texting cocktail waitress, casually mentions "boyfriend" - how to proce

    She could have also meant best friend, a few girls I know use the bf for best friend instead of boyfriend even though they are taken.

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    frostedglass is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Texting cocktail waitress, casually mentions "boyfriend" - how to proce

    So should I completely ignore the fact that she mentioned "bf" and continue on as if she doesn't have one? Or do I acknowledge it?


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